rape

Concealing the faults of one's wife

Q: I got married 3 months ago and got to know that my wife got raped when she was 13 and got harrased by her cousins once too. Now I started feeling bad and have a sense of hate for her. What should I do? I love her more than anything. I feel that I should do the same what she did so I could balance out the feelings on both sides.

Khuda Ta`ala se du`aa maangna owr us ke oopar bharosa rakhna

Q: Mufi Saheb as my marriage is nearer I am in a tension because Mufi saheb someone when I was small not baligh raped me. (ye sab mere ghar walon ko nahi pta..or mene sharm k mare kisi ko nahi bataya..). He did all the things that a husband do with his wife. Mufti saheb her waqt demagh mein ek tension rehti hai kahin aisa na ho shadi ki pehli rat hi husband mujhe talaaq de de or mere abba jan ko jo ke ek boht mashur insan hain unko beizzati ka samna karna pade. Mufti Saheb main kya karu? Please kuch bataiye. Hazrat ek ladka hai jo mujhe boht pasand karta hai na maine usko dekha na usne mujhe ko. Na hi hum ek dusre se bat karte hain. Ladke ki maan ne dekh rakha hai mujhe. Usne mere ghar 50-60 bar risha bheja hoga mere lye lekn mere ghar wale kehte hain ke uska koi buisenis nahi hai wo boht gareb hai. Hum tumhari shadi kisi ameer gharane mein karenge. Lekin Mufti Saheb main chaahti hun ke jab wo mujhe itna chaahta hi hai to kiyu na main usi se shadi kar lun kiyunki mujhe ye khof rehta hai ke agr kisi anjan se shadi kar li to wo mujhe talaq na de de mere istemalshuda hone ki wajeh se. Mufi Saheb please guide me. Please kuch bataiye main boht tension mein hun.