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Father insulting husband

Q: I am a Muslim woman and I would like to know in Islam if a father hits his daughter who is married without valid reason and my husband tells him to stop with respect and he then hits my husband and uses excessive vulgar languages in the open public.

I, the daughter have held my dads clothes to stop him from going to hit my husband but he continued to slap me wildly infront of many people.

He does not like my husband because my husband is not well to do and is very simple and calm . He has a quite nature and never argues with my parents from the time I have been married . On a daily basis my father insults him tries to put him down infront of other people uses languages to him infront of me all because in life my dad out of his own will had paid for my hospital bills. But that was on his own will as my husband could not afford it and I have agreed that he couldn't afford a private hospital rather government which I was very happy to go to.

He insults my husbands parents and put them to value infront of many people . He shows off to people what my husbands parents position is and disgraces them all the time .

My father is very nice but his attitude and pride of money is very bad . If he pays anything out of his own will for me or my children he will insult and tell the public he paid for that and he says it in such a way that makes my husband down in the public eye.

I am a very blessed woman to have such a great husband . Allah has given me the best man as my partner and I dislike when I see him getting insulted . I cannot take it anymore and I do not know what to do . The only thing I have asked my father is to guide my husband in business but my father rules his life and wants to fight for everything.

Allah Ta'ala owr Nabi (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) ke baare me gustaakhi karna

س: میری فیملی میں کزن ہے اس نے اللہ اور نبی ﷺ کہ بارے گستاخی کی تھی۔ پھر وہ نکاح سے پہلے تائب ہو گئی۔ یعنی جس دن اس کا نکاح تھا اس نے اسی دن توبہ کرنے کہ بعد نکاح کیا۔ لیکن کلمہ شہادت اس نے زبان سے مکمل ادا نہیں کیا ۔۔ کیونکہ کچھ لفظ ایسے تھے جس پر اسے وسوسے آتے ہیں ۔ یعنی لفظ کچھ اور ہے اور اس کا مطلب اسکے ذہن میں کچھ اور آتا ہے . اس لئے اس ڈر کہ باعث کہ کہیں گستاخی نہ ہو جائے اس نے آدھا کلمہ زبان سے ادا کیا اور کلمے کا دوسرا آدھا حصہ ( یعنی جس پر وسوسے آتے ہیں ) دل ہی دل میں پڑھا۔ اور نکاح کر لیا ۔ اس طرح اسکا نکاح صحیح ہے ؟؟؟ جزاک اللہ

Mother insulting Ulama

Q: I'm really becoming despondent of my parents attitude on Islam and how they criticize every sunnat that I strive to practice in my life and this is really becoming intolerable for me. On two separate occasions, my mother abused Pakistani Deobandi Ulema. I realize that this is a serious blasphemy and her nikah with my father must have been broken. Is it right, mufti sahab? My heart ached a lot when I heard such a comment on the pious deobandi ulema of pakistan who have sacrificed their lives for uplifting deen. And are reflection of the lives of Sahaba R.A. I have a lot of aqeedat with Deobandi Ulema and cannot live along with such a person who abuses them. I have heard stories of Sahaba R.A and pious akabireen who left their parents when they uttered blasphemous words against our Prophet SAW. As Prophet SAW's waaris are Ulema, for this reason I have decided to leave my house and enroll in Nadwatul Uloom or Mazahir Uloom for Alimiyah course without informing anyone from my family. I'm 20 years old and have currently 660 rupees in my bank account (10 dollars). I know that when I leave my house I shall face a lot problems but I really want to become an Aalim and study the deen. Most importantly, I can never live along some one who abuses deobandi ulema, I cannot tolerate this for a second. Whole of my entire family is very very far away from Islam. They never offer namaz for 5 times a day. My mother criticizes Hazrat Maulana Ilyas Ghuman D.B and it really infuriates me a lot. Will leaving the house because I cannot tolerate such blasphemous comments and for becoming an alim from a madarssa like Nadwatul uloom constitue a sin?