Q: I am passing through a bad phase in life. My mother shows favoratisam between her children. She always hates so in return I disobey her. She prefers my brothers, what should I do in these circumstances? I want to commit suicide. She looks down upon me and teases me. I am an aalima and 25 years old. I feel a block on my heart when I disobey her but what can I do? Am I a sinner? How can I obey her?
Q: Mei akela hu or ammi umardaraj hai mujhe jamat mei jane ko kahta hai.
Q: Meri ammi jaan 44 saal ki hain aur walid 52 saal k. Unki shaadi ko bees saal ho chuke hain. Pichly hi hafty mere walid ny meri ammi per tuhmat lagai aur walid ka shakk humne door bhi kia. Meri ammi aik working lady hain. Wo hum teen behn bhaiyon k liye kamaati hain aur equally ghr ka khrcha chlati hain. Pichly hafty mere walid ne baniyat 2 talaaqein dien. Mere 2 chacha humary ghar aye aur meri ammi ki buhat be izzati ki aur humein raat k 2 bjey ghar se nikal jaany ki dhamki bhi di. Meri ammi ne buhat dukh dekhy hain aur hum unky bachyy isky gwaah hain k meri ammi aik pakeeza aur naik khatoon hain. Mere abbu abb keh rahy hain k wo humari maan ko talaaq de k ghr se nikaal dein gyy lekin hum apni ammi k saath hi rehna chahty hain toh iss maamlay main islami taalemat kya hain?
Q: I have a question relating to a child's obligation toward parents. I want to ask question relating to family vacation or social activity. If a wife and husband work jointly to pay for a family vacation and the mum wants to go on holiday as well, I have a question:
1) Can a credit card or credit facility be used to fund the mum's holiday?
2) Can the mum travel without a mahram if she is over 60?
What is the obligation of the son in this regard? Can he politely decline the payment of the holiday due to inadequate funds and also disallow the holiday as no mahram is present? Will the son be punished in the eyes of Allah for doing this? Also what happens when the money one's son gives to a mum on debt and that is being used to buy lavish gifts for the other son and his family? What happens in essence if a mum thinks a child has the financial means and expects all expenses and holidays to be paid for when a child in essence is living on finance?
Q: I am the only child of my mother, married with two kids alhamdulillah. But recently things are not going well for me. I'm not in a position to provide for my mother and wife at the same time and this is eating me up. I understand very well both have rights upon me but my earnings are very little! It's like choosing my wife over my mother.
Q: Is this true that when a mother asks the son to divorce his wife, he should divorce her? is the mum's status higher than the wife's status?