wishing for gifts

Push present

Q: I wanted to know about "push present" which is a gift from a husband to his wife for her giving birth of the child. It is usually called "push present" because the wife pushes the baby out. Is a push present allowed in Islam? The wife usually expects a gift from the husband because she has suffered nine months and labour as well. Is it ok for her to seek a gift from her husband?

Hadya milne ki khwahish rakhna

Q: Meri dost he. Usne ye sawal puchha hy wo bachon ko tution aur quran pak prhti hy free men. Uski dusri frnd bhi yehi kaam krti hen unki talbat un ke lye gifts lkr ati hen jis se andaza hta hy k talbat ko mualima se muhabat hy. Ye dekh kr meri dost ka dil bhi krta hy k ussy b uski talbat gifts aur hadya den taake usy mehsus ho k wo b apni talbat ko aziz hy. Ab meri dost ye pushna chahti hy k agr esa khyal dil m ata hy to is se gunah hga ya ye khyal krna jaez hy? Aur ye khyal dil m hi ata hy wo kbhi kisi se mangti nhi kuchh.