Ghusal

Becoming excited when talking to girls

Q: I am 22 years old and work in an IT company. I have to interact with a lot of girls all the time to solve their computer issues and while talking to them I get excited and a white liquid flows from my penis. But, it does not lead to ejaculation. Altough my intentions are not pervert I had this issue when I used to carry small kids as well but it has stopped now. But I still have this issue with girls.So,does it break my gusul ? Do I have to take gusul again? Is there any way to stop this?

Delaying having a bath after intercourse

Q: After intercourse if I get any najasat impurity on my body then immediately I wash off everything then in the morning before going to the gym I don't takea bath and wear my gym garments then after coming back from the gym I take a bath. I know this will clean all the impurity but some day if I dont have intercourse with my husband and before going to the gym I use the same unwashed gym garments then tell me this will make me impure najis or am I pure? Because I get a little sweat while I excercise.

Doubting One's Limbs Getting Wet in Wudhu and Ghusl

Q: My problem is that when I perform Wudhu and Ghusl, the water does flow over my skin but my skin does not get wet. I think the reason for this is that my skin is too dry. I think my Wudhu/Ghusl will not get accepted if skin does not get wet so I apply soap then my skin does get wet for a very short period. However, that is causing me problems, the soap finishes too quickly, Wudhu and Ghusl take too long and lots of water is wasted. Please tell me if I pour water over skin but skin does not get wet will wudhu/ghusl be accepted?