Bid'ah

Eid gifts

Q: I noticed that people are giving "eid gifts" in the same way as the non muslims are giving "Christmas gifts". Is this a practice of Nabee (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) or an innovation? I can not remember any such custom when we were children.

Going to peoples houses for khatam

Q: People call me to there house for khatam. They say sit in the middle and they tell me we have done e.g. 10 katams of Qur'an, many thousands ayaat-e-karima and I do dua for the diseased then we eat. Is it permissible for me to eat? They also give money at the end. What is the Shari'ee hukm with reference?

Taking Tabarruk from the Awliya and Buzurgs

Q: A sheikh of tasawwuf told his murid, who was going for four months to read salaah at a certain spot in Nizamuddeen markaz where Ml Ilyaas (Rahmatullahi Alayh) used to read tahajjud salaah, is this not bidat? Is such a action established in deen? If there is such a thing as taking barkat, will it not be restricted to Nabi (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam)? Please answer in detail with relevant proofs from Quraan and Hadith.