tahaarat

Seeing little wetness after a wet dream

Q:

1. When I start sleeping then in the beginning I don't sleep completely and some sexual things flash in my mind and some mazi comes out so this would be counted as wet dream? I am sure that I didn't have any vaginal throbbing nor did my heart beat get fast, so do I have to make ghusl?

2. When I woke up then I remember having a wet dream but there was no wetness nor mani or mazi but there was very little spot on my clothes which was looking like regular white discharge, so should I make ghusl?

Pimple bursting while making wudhu

Q: I have got a fat pimple or wound, which is still open. Its on my hand. It does not bleed when it is dry but when water passes on it, it gets wet, and water sits on it. When I put a tissue on it, the tissue gets stained with a dot of red or yellow colour, a little bigger than a dot. So my question is that since its on my hand, how do I do my wudhu? And the water that touches the wound is paak or napaak? 

Urine drops

Q: I am a male and I follow the Shafi'i madhab. I need some advice for the following problems: I get clear sticky leakage in little amounts from the male organ and I cannot be sure when it will come out but I know it's bound to come out at some point. I always try to make instinja before wudu but even then the leakage is random and it occurs everyday at different times without any arousal. This problem really hinders my worship because I fear that if I make wudu and walk to the masjid it would come out and not feel it because most of the time I cant feel it come out. When reading Quran it may also come out and then I don't know it. When Jumuah comes around I fear that my wudu would break before jumuah salah then I don't even know it. I'm not sure if I'm excused or not. If I am an excused person what is the difference between the Shafi'i and Hanafi way. I once wiped my phone with methylated spirits because I needed to stick on a screen protector. Is my phone napak?