Various masaail of Nikaah

Q: How much should someone love his wife?

Q: Is it permissible in Islam to go on tours and outings along with your partner after nikaah but before rukhsati? If no! Then what acts are to be avoided with your partner when one is married and did not get rukhsati yet?

Q: Allah created both men and women differently such that a woman does not naturally feel to have more than one spouse at a time.

1. My question is that if it was in the nature of a male to have more than one wife as created by Allah then why are there naturally the feelings of jealousy or insecurities and intolerance that a woman feels about it? My mind and heart both know that Allahs plans are the best and I blindly trust in them but then why I feel annoyed and really bad about the fact of sharing my husband with someone else. I even feel annoyed when my husband teases me about angels of Jannat? Why has Allah put this feeling in us knowing the natural tendency of males? 

2. Though I know that there is nothing wrong in having more than one wife but I still feel uncomfortable and jealous about this fact. I would never be able to stand the fact of my husband marrying someone else. Does that mean that I am not a good believer as my husband constantly keeps saying that if I cannot tolerate the fact of my husband having another wife (suppose) then I am not a good muslimah. Is that so?

Q: I am in love with a non-Muslim. We both want to marry each other. I know that nikah is the only way out. But I want to know if it is halaal for her to accept Islam for me.

Q: How much should one love his spouse?

Q: Is there a reward for a woman whose husband has taken another wife?

Q: My husband did not touch me for the last 2 years even though we are living in the same house with 2 kids. Is our marriage still valid? 

Q: Here weddings are all about show off. Music mix gathering and dancing. Am I allowed to go to my sister's wedding wearing a niqaab even though there is going to be mix gathering music?

Q: If a man kisses his wife and during this time the woman thinks of her brother and thinks and feels as if the kisses are being given by her brother, would this affect the woman's nikaah with her husband?

These thoughts are unintentional and she tried fighting the thought and feelings but they kept coming.

Q: If a man got married and his mum told him that he must not marry again and he's been through hell in his marriage. His mum is late now amd his kids are grown up and working. He found somebody in his life who is going through as much as him. She was an orphan and now he wants to know if he can marry this woman despite what his late mum said. He is only living in the house because of his kids. Can you advise if he can marry and be happy again?