Masaail relating to intimacy

Being intimate with one's wife

Q: I wanted to ask you two questions about the intercourse between husband and wife.

  1. Can husband and wife have intercourse in light?
  2. Can husband and wife have intercourse in such a position that husband is under his wife. I was told me that in intercourse wife should always be under male and this is the only shar'ee method or intercourse. 

Questions on intimate relations between husband and wife

Q:

  1. If a women gets aroused while sitting with her husband and the vaginal area gets wet,but no intercourse takes place; does ghusl become fardh on the lady?
  2. If the husband fondles his wife's clitoris and she does not orgasm but the area does become wet, is ghusl fardh?
  3. Can the husband and wife masturbate each other?
  4. Is oral sex allowed in Islam, if none of the najaasat is swallowed?
  5. Is it permissable for a couple to use vibrators and other sex toys?

Being intimate with one's wife in the state of haidh

Q: The following are few questions regarding a woman in the state of haidh or janaabat:

  1. Can her husband fulfil his desires using her thighs? If not, can it be fulfilled by putting a thin garment in between?
  2. Can the husband touch the area between the navel and knee with his bear hands? Also, can their thighs meet without any barrier between together with having the private parts covered?

Husband and wife spending time together during haidh

Q:

  1. Unknowingly about menstrual, wife & husband spend time together. What does she have to do?
  2. Is it ok for her to make ghusul or she must make ghusul?
  3. In her menstrual cycle time or days she  has to walk through the Musjid a little through the mens section & she has to walk in the middle of the ladies main section to get to the school where she teaches. What can she do about this?