haraam love

Love problems

Q: The problem I am facing is related to my love life. Is it going to get better? Is there any dua I can make or anything because currently I am going through this issue. It is affecting my present and future. Please let me know.

Method of getting over haraam love

Q: I've landed my self in a real big problem in which I feel like I have no escape.

I turned to the local imam of my masjid for help regarding problems in my marriage. Over the space of 2/3 years we would talk regularly near enough daily. To the point we started falling in love with each other. Eventually he confessed how he felt and I also said how I felt and after this we met up once when we kissed however we realised it couldn't be and we broke off. But he went and lied to my husband and everyone that I had to tried to come on to him I told my husband the truth and he believed me and stuck by me. But for the past one year I have been struggling to get over and forget him. And I feel like I'm messing my whole life up over this one person but I feel like I can't see sense. I can't approach my shaykh as the imam involved is also bayt with my shaykh and he told him his side of the story and I also said mine he advised me to change my number etc which I have done but I feel like my heart is so corrupt. I try to forget him but I can't. I feel like I don't love my husband but only sticking by him because of our children. I feel so lost and broken and I feel like I'm destroying myself and humbly request your guidance

Haraam mahabbat

Q: Mujhe ayk ladki se pehli baar dekte hi mohbat hogai thi and mene use bht manga Allah se and Allah ne dua bi qabool ki and us ladki ko meri qadmon me daldia or wo mujse tootke mohbat karne lagi but uske walden razi nai the because mere pas job nai h or wo rich family me karna chata the to uski shadi dosri jaga hogai ab wo mujse bat nai karti. Muje jo use mohbat hui thi aj bi wesi h h dil me me namaz quran parke dua karta hn Allah se wo muje miljae mene parha hai jannat me ladki ko woi husband milega jo duniya me uska husband hoga marte dam tak. Jannat me her khuwahish pori hojaegi wish karne pe to kia wo ladki muje jannat me miljaegi jise me duniya me chata hn dil se? Ya wo uske sath hogi jo duniya me uska husband hoga?