Hurmat-e-Musaaharah

Doubts on hurmat-e-musaaharah

Q: Does humeraat e musaahara happen with just a quick touch? I was taking my baby from my father in law and could have touched his hand or it was my babies skin im not sure, and then the thought came that I am touching lustfully. I'm not sure if it was lustfull or not. This happens a lot. What can I do about it?

Touching one's father in law

Q: Somedays ago my father in law was ill. He is 76 yrs old and suffering brain stroke. When he was ill my mother in law was taking off his shirt because he was sweating. But she couldn't do it, so I helped her and touched my father in law's hand. Then I saw that his hand and my husbands hand is almost same type. I did not know what was the exact feeling, is it funny or surprising. Then I didn't give attention to it and I normally helped him. It was total of 1 or 1.5 min that I touched his hand. But I can remember very clearly that I felt disgusted when I touched his body because he was sweating. Then I removed my hand and washed it. Does that cause any harm in my relationship? My father in law cannot walk by himself, can't do anything without other's help. He can't move when he is lying in the bed. He can't even take his meal himself.

Woman looking at the private part of a man

Q:

1. If a woman looks at the private parts of a man without lust, does it establish hurmat-e-musaaharat?

2. A woman looks at the private part of a man in a picture or an image and feels lust, but she does not know whose private part this is. She does not know with whom she has established hurmat-e-musaaharat. Now if she is about to marry a man, should she doubt that those private parts may be of her future father in law and the groom is haram for her to marry. As she does not know with whom she has established hurmat-e-musaharat, what should she do?

Hurmat-e-musaaharat

Q: For hurmat musaaharat to be established, is it necessary that shahwah be felt at the exact time of touching. Now suppose a man touches a female. He did not intend to touch her with desire. But their hands were together for a few times. At this time the man felt lust. That mans, shahwah was not present at the beginning of the touching, but it came when the hands were in contact of each other. Does it establish hurmat musahara?