Suspending the Talaaq

Q: If someone says that if I do a certain task/job, my wife will be divorced i.e. my nikah will not be valid. Later on he did that particular task, will the divorce take place or not?

Q: If my husband says that if you cry again then automatically divorce will take place. Am I divorced or not?

Q: If a husband takes a qasam that he has no relation with that lady which is ought to be his wife and he often says that they are not mine. He also says that if they say they are my wives then I give them talaq talaq talaq three time. He even holds the Quran in his hand and says that they are not in my relationship. Does it mean talaq and is it talaq for all his wives?

Q: I told my wife that if she talked with her family members on her mobile except her mother and father then she will be divorced. If in case she talked to anyone then what will be the situation? Will she be divorced? I said only once talaaq in case she talked with them on the mobile.

Q: I said to my wife. "Agar bazar se ik ganty ke andar wapus na ai to sub kuch khatam hojai ga" with the intention in my head to scare her that the rishta will end so come fast and not at all with the niyat of talaq. Now after 3 months I did researched and found out that this is called kinaya and it may be a divorce?

Q: I speak Pothwari Punjabi. I used to say alot of phrases like...

Mein iski chordisa

Jabi woh idr ay toh mein uski chordisa

Or jab idr ay gi toh talaaq ho jasi

Jila vee idr ay teh usni talaaq ho jasi

Uski mein talaaq desa

Mein us k saath na rehnigya

Is this same as a promise or is this condtional? Its the same as urdu meaning I think.

Q: If a husband tells his wife that if you dont fix your attitude then you go. Would that be divorce?

Q: My wife lives with our kids in our home country in the upper portion of the house while my parents and younger sisiter stay in the lower portion. I live in some other country. There were alot of conflicts between my wife and parents. One day, I asked my wife to stop going downstairs to avoid any further arguments. I threatened her by saying that if she goes down, our relation will be over without any intention of divorcing her. She asked me about going downstairs to use washroom to wash our baby which I allowed her. She went down, washed the baby and use one of the room to change the baby's diaper many times after that. When I went home, she sat many timmes with me downstairs. Things got normal after a few days and my wife made up with my parents. She also started going down to speak to them. However, she did not ask me before going down and I have no problem with that. Is there anything wrong we have done? 

Q: I had an argument with me wife and stopped her from going to my sisters place. I warned her that if she does the same thing again, our relationship will be over. However, later I calmed down and forgot the matter. After some time my wife went to my sisters place and I am fine with that. My question is, does her activity invalidate our marriage?

Q: Due to a conflict between my in-laws and me, I left my wife at her parents home with the condition to solve this prolonged issue within 10 (ten) days. I said to her to tell her parents that if this issue is not sorted out by her parents withen 10 days then you (she) must stay at your (her) parents home. I will not be responsible for you and your future. After this period all efforts from your parents side will be useless. They did not contact me at that time, and now they approached me after three months. Can we continue our marital life now or is the separation done?