running away from home

Running away without settling one's debts

Q: I am living in a GCC country for the past 20 years. I didnt have enough understanding with ribaa and was having bank loans and credit cards. In early 2008 I performed hajj and made alot of tobah with ribaa and after that I had chances but didnt take it anymore. Later my business got collapsed I got bankrupt and I couldnt repay bank loans. Since that time i owe banks money And my full intention was to repay the money somehow but I got total loss and now I am just jobless for around 2 years now in dire constraints completely. I want to ask you that if I leave the country without paying back the loans what I have trying hardest for the last 7/8 years...and there is no way to return and I am getting worse situation. Will I be held responsible or is it gonna be sin if I leave without paying as per my financial situation.

Talaaq ke ba'd iddat me bethna

Q: Mere chote chacha ke 5 bache hn jinme 2 doodh pite bache hn. Chote chacha ki biwi ghar se bhaggai hn kisi or ladke kepas apne 2 doodh pite bache ko lekar. Ab hamare chacha apne susral me kerae hn or kehte hn mene divorce dedi h apni bivi ko. Muje ye bataen shariat ke hawale se unhone jo divorce di h wo qabool h ya nai kyunke unki bivi hamari chachi to iddat me bi nai bethi kyunke talaaq ke bad iddat me to betna parta hai na? Wo bs bhaggai ghar se n koi contact nai h ab?

Girl leaving home to get married

Q: A girl liked a guy. The guy's parents contacted girl's parents several times for marriage but girl's parents always refused thinking it as an inappropriate match due to lack of guy's religious commitment and financial stability .The girl left home and did nikah in absence of any of her wali. Now the guy's parents are inviting girl's parents on Walima ceremony. What should girl's parents do? Their daughter disobeyed them and embarrassed them in front of the society. What are the 'sila rehmi' requirements here for parents?