iddat

Iddat

Q: Mere abbo 22 Nov 2015 ko intiqal ker gai the. Janaza bhi usi din huwa. Islami date yad nahi. Meri ammi jan ki iddat kis date (English or Islamic) ku puri ho gi?

Coming out of the home to take out the dirt in the state of iddat

Q:

1. My husband passed away on the 27th of February at 3:15 PM. When will my iddat terminate?

2. I have a washing machine in my garage which is located in front of my house. Can I go there to do my washing? I have no maid. Similarly can I take the dirt and leave it outside in the demarcated area?

3. The deceased leaves behind the following heirs. How will the estate be distributed? Mother Father 3 Sisters Wife 1 Son (2 and half years old) 1 daughter ( 5 years old)

Talaaq after khalwat

Q: My daughter accepted a proposal and the boys parents asked for the Nikah to be done. My Daughter accepted as it was the correct thing to do. She never moved to her marital home . As she never been with any men or involved in any relationships, the two brief visits with her husband was a bit uncomfortable. She felt awkward if he held her hand etc. This was the first time ever alone with a male in a relationship. She was very anxious and nervous. The Husband gave her talaaq as he felt she was meant to be in love with him when she agreed to the Nikaah. The Mother has sent back all the gifts we gave him and ashurah gifts we sent them. They also feel that there is no iddat. The talaaq was sent by sms. The Boys parents didn't want to wait or try. My daughter started her iddat. The marriage was not consummated.

Islamic divorce

Q: I'm in a complicated situation and have been asking scholars for some guidance through my confusion. I was married three years ago in Pakistan, my husband sent me divorce papers while I was visiting my mother in New York because it turns out he was just looking for the green card. However, by USA law he cannot legally divorce me until he has resided in one state for a year. He has to wait another 6 months to file for divorce. My question is, am I Islamically divorced because he sent papers? I just want to be super sure because my mother wants to look for a rishta but I don't want her speaking to another man on my behalf if I am still married. Also there is the question of idaat, have I completed my waiting period because we have not lived together since July 2015 or do I need to wait 3 months after the divorce has been finalized legally through NY state law?