istikhaara

Mia biwi ke darmiyaan ikhtilaaf

Q: Mere dost ki sister k shadhi ki bat 8 saal sy chal rahi thi us jaga per un ki bat paki ho gae sister k father ny istiqara karwa lea us main no aya jaha shadhi hoe sister ki vo dono sagi sister hain yek ka beta hai our dosry ki beti apas k taloqaat kharab na hon is waja sy shadhi ho gae ab vo bhen apny ghar main parashan hain hasband wife main banti nhi hai istiqary k khalaf hum ny kam kya hai is ka koi kafaara ho yeh our koi bat ho plz batain

Istikhaara for marriage

Q: We carried out an istikhara for my son almost a year ago for a college girl he was interested in. The Aalim said no. My son got very disturbed and heard from someone that istikhara can be repeated after some time. During this year almost, he prayed five times and performed umrah with the family and did istikhara himself and saw himself offering prayer. He says he is satisfied and the answer is yes from Almighty Allah. He only resolves around any option confirming his yes but we the parents still wish to seek guidance. We want some responsible authority to say ok before we take decision. Please help us!!

Istikhara regarding employment

Q: I have a question about istekhara which I did about my job. I did istekhara 2 times (every time 7 times). In dreams I saw different colours like white, black, red, and green. Some nights I saw good dreams and some times bad. So I can't judge either this job will be successful for me or not in my life and after this. Some time in my heart I feel this is good and I should apply for this job but some time I am afraid. so I can't make a decision about this. please guide me and give me brief reply for my satisfaction. 

Job ke liye istikhaara

Q: Me apni job k lye apply karna chata hu. mera 1 friend hay usi nay mujhe kaha tha k 1 admi hay jo 100000 Pakistani rupees lay k bharti kar day ga. to mene is k leye istekhara kya tha k mera kaam ho ga ya ni agar hua b to kher aur barkat wala b hoga ya ni. is k lye mene istekhara kya 2 baar kya har baar 7 martaba continuously kya leken mujhe kuch samajh ni i. mene har tarah k khwab dekhay jis me kuch achay to kbi buray. aur har tarah k colour like white black red green b dekhay. Mere dil me abi b kashmakish hay k mere leye ye job sahi hogi ya ni. meri samaj me kuch b ni aa rha k me kis taraf jaon. Aap hazraat meri is baray me achhi rehnumai krain. me aap k shukar guzaar rahu ga.

Dream

Q: I asked you about this dream but you just said dont do anything without consulting with your parents but you didnt tell me anything if this dream was good or not or should we both proceed for marriage or not.

I just wanna ask you this. Can you please tell me if this dream was good or not. I'm so confused. I want to ask you something about istikhara dream.

Me and my partner wants to get married and we were doing istikhara for our marriage. I was doin it to but didnt see anything yet, but he had a dream last night. It was about going home on sea in a ship with friends. He told me "hum sab pla krty hain janay ka ship k andar sea mae and jo ship hoti hai wo mere dad ki hoti hai mtlb *mere father ki* mere partner k father ki nae. He said k hum kch larkay or larkiyan hotay hain office k tu hum ship mae beth j jatay hain sab tu udhr sab kapry change krne lgty hain na tu tm ajeb se kapry pehn leti ho chotay or wo mjhy pasand nahi atay hain tu mae tmhe bolta hu k maham ye kya hai tm ne ye kya pehna hai tu tm mou bna k beth jati ho or kch nae bolti naraz ho k bas beth jati phr mjhy gusa ata hai or mae kch bhi nae krta hu bas mae na swimming krne k liye sea mae jump krta hu n tum sab mjhy dekh rhy hotay ho mae akela he sea mae jump krta hu phr mjhy ye b dar hta hai k mjhy koe shark a k na kha jaye, then he said in sab k badh jab hum free ho jatay hain tu mae tmhre dad ko call krta hu or wo mjhse puchty hain k sab kaisa raha mae kehta hu k acha tha sab but thk se unhe kch nae batata k kya hua mae keh deta hu k sab acha tha then wo mjhy kehty hain k acha tm log gaye thy beta meri ship py tu mjhy rent dy do mae kehta hu k uncle wo tu thk hai mae de deta hu but mae maham ka kch lgta hu and ap rent mang rhy hain tu tmhre dad kehty k han beta wo tu dena hai na. Phr he said mjhy agy thk se kch yd nae. He said last mae main n tm bethy hty hain sath mae n mae tmhe ye kehta hu k tmhre liye koe bargedier he thk rhy ga. Bas phr dream khtm ho jata.

Can you plz tell me what does that mean? Is it a positive dream or not? Should we get married or not? Can you plz tell me the true meaning/tabeer of this dream. As we both are so tensed and we both wanna get married cause we both love each other si much.

Consulting one's family regarding a proposal

Q: My family had got a proposal for me and I was interested but with no solid reason my father refused. He said things like, the boy's family were living far away, and also he is 10 years older then me. I did istikhara many times and I got no negative signs. I do pray daily to turn my heart away from this but it is uncontrollable now. I want advice whether I should ask my family to consider it. I'm afraid that once it mustn't get refused for a reason that is not valid.

Dreams

Q: Whenever I’m in dilemma I always do istaqara and allhamdulila it is proved as fruitful for me. Now I did istaqara for my marriage. And I saw many dreams in single night. I asked Allah if I should ask ammi again for same proposal, and should I marry him because I don’t want any problems in both the families plus if it is better for us to marry? because once it is rejected by aunt when he visited my home because of his looks. As I metioned many dreams I saw one of it was-

1. I saw a dream of istaqara that that guy and my family are sitting and discussing. So I spoke to my ammi again and convenes her that when I selected that guy on the basis of his akhlak , Namazi and Deeni then why you are going on his looks.

2. I saw dream on same night that I’m standing where wooden drums are set one above the other. And on each drum, there is one question and I have to answer. The first answer I gave correct the second one I don’t know answer so all drums fell down and broken and I came out of that place and im finding myself on road where everyone is blind but all are pretending that they can see.

3. I saw again a dream on same night that two hens one is big other is small is under a tree one over the other standing. And I’m feeling both are safe under a tree.

4. I saw someone handover a baby in my hand and said u have to take care of him ALONE. And im thinking I will make this baby Namazi.

5. I saw I am connecting a wire containing the electricity I got shock but still I manage to tie up together. And then having Dates (Khajoor) and new dress is ready for me to go somewhere. Please advise me on it what should I understand from above... should I go ahead?

Khwaab ki ta'beer

Q: Mari ami istikhara kar rahi mari job k liya. Us main unho na phela din deakha k hum sub ro rahy hia pareshan hia abu ko phon kar rahy hia... 2nd day unho na deakha k hum or taya ki family qabristan ja rahy hia lakin kab qabristan phouchty hia to taya ki family nahi hotii jus ami main or mari behan hoty hia. hum wapis aty khula medan hia andara hia or hum taya k ghr phouty or ankha khul gayi un ki...

Khwaab ki ta'beer

Q: Mein ny apni shaadi k liye istakhara kiya tha. Mein ny khawab mein daikha tha k raat ka waqat hai. boht andhera hai. mein ghar ja rahe hon. mgr ghar ka rasta nai mil raha. phr aagy aik rasta hai. us rasty mein 2 Sher bethy hain. mein unky qareeb sy guzar jati hon. thora aagy jaati hon daikhti hon k aik sher mery peechy Aata hai. wo mujh py jhapta aur meri Aankh khul gaye.. doosri dafa istakhara kiya to khawab mein Apny hathon py mehandi lagi howi daikhi.. mgr right hand ki mehandi left hand sy ziada achi the.. plzz mujhy khawabo ki tabeer bta dyn. aur meri madad b kar dyn.