Qualities to look for when choosing a spouse
Q: I want to ask about the quality of knowing a religion oriented person prior to selecting a spouse on religion features.
nikaah
Chupke se nikaah karna
س: میں ایک بیوہ عورت جس کے ۵ بچے ہیں اور عمر ۵۲ سال کے قریب ہے اس سے نکاح کرنا چاہتا ہوں ، لیکن کچھ وجوہات کی بنا پر ہم اپنے خاندان یا رشتہ داروں کو نہیں بتانا چاہتے ، کیا میں اپنے کچھ دوستوں کی موجودگی میں یہ نکاح کر سکتا ہوں؟ اس عورت کا ۲۵ سالہ اور ۲۰ سالہ بیٹے کیا وکیل اور گواہ بن سکتے ہیں.خاتون کا والد تو زندہ ہے لیکن اس سے ان کا کوئی تعلق نہیں یہ آزاد اور اپنے گھر میں رہتے ہیں. محترم مفتی صاحب مجھے اس مسلہ کا مفصل جواب عنایت فرما دیں
Wife refusing to have sexual relations
Q: My wife is now in her menopause... We haven't been having sex and she refuses to have it also. What happens to her in the eyes of Allah?
Marrying a boy who engages in salaami and mawlood
Q: If there is a boy who engages in Salaami and Mawlid, but everything else about him is favourable like akhlaaq and deeni consciousness, is not marrying him because of the 'soofie' side of him a legitimate reason to not marry?
Marrying a non-Muslim
Q: A Muslim brother is asking whether it is permissible to make nikaah to a non-Muslim (Hindu/Tamil). He is very keen on doing it the right way although the girl at the moment is not ready to read shahada. She is pregnant with his child and is willing to allow the child, when born, to be a practicing Muslim. What is the ruling for this brother?
Marrying one's sister in law's brother
Q: My brother is married to my uncle's daughter. It's been 9 years already and now they asked for my hand in marriage to my sister in laws brother, is this jaiz?
Jokingly getting married
Q: Does a nikah done as a joke (just for the sake of fun) in a friends gathering without the presence of the wali, become valid?
Is it valid when the girl says yes just because of peer pressure of acceptance in a group and without having the knowledge of the sensitivity of this subject/issue of nikah.
Secret nikaah
Q: A girl I know has done a nikaah with her boss. She did not have her guardian present and there was no written documents. They had a supposed molvi reading the nikaah and two witnesses. It was all verbal. Does the nikaah stand?
Making a secret nikaah after committing zina
Q: I have been in a relationship with a boy for the past year and it resulted in us both committing a disgraceful act and has resulted in a child. We have repented and asked for taubah and want the baby to be legitimate in the eyes of Allah by performing nikaah. The problem is with my mother, she does not agree to this and says I am too young and also she is not religiously inclined when it comes to marriage in Islam. She says that I am 17 and cannot do this without her consent. I was wondering if there are any ways to make nikaah secretly until we can do it openly. My first priortity is my child and I want to do this properly and the boy and his family agree to this.
Doosri shaadi karna pehli biwi ko bataane beghair
Q: Ma ne doosri shadi karli ha pehli biwi ko bataye begair ab mujhay nai chata hu k ma pehli biwi ko batao warna usay doosri wali ko talaq dena paray ga. Jo k pehlay se talak shuda thi shohar k chornay k bad bacho k lye galat kam lag gaye thi. Kya ma ne kuch galat kya ha?