Q: I want to marry a girl of my choice.. My mother and father both agreed upon this.. The girl's parents also agreed upon this.. But their will be a gap of a year as they agreed upon. But due to Islamic reasons and due to sins, we want to perform a secret nikaah to stop sins and to have the mercy of Allah SWT.. When the time comes we will perform nikaah before everyone. Pls guide me..
Q: Mere biwi ke ghar wali meri biwi ke sehat ka bahana banakar 4 logo main meri biwi ki sehat bahut kharab hai keh kar panchayat rakh kar ek saal ka time lagaye hai magar meri biwi ki tabiyat ab thik hai bade log condition lagaye ke ek saal tak mai meri biwi se phone par bhi baat nahikarna aur mere biwi se mulakat nahi karna mere biwi ko dekhna bhi nahi aur meri biwi se kuch bhi talukat nahi rakhna agar chah mein meri biwi se baat karne ki koshish bhi kara toh wo log mere biwi ka mera rishta thoda denge aur mujh par police case kar denge magar mufti sahab 3 mahine tak sohar biwi baat nahi kare toh rishta toot jayega hai to kya main meri biwi se baat nahi kar ke do mahine ho gaye agar 3 mahine tak my meri biwi se baat nahi kara toh yeh rishta rahega yaad jayega main toh majboor hoon main meri biwi aur bache ko dur kar lena nahi chaha raha hoon aap meherbani karke mujhe rasta bataye aur yeh rishta rahega 3 mahine baat nahi karne pe yeh rishta rahega ya nahi rahega matlab panchayat ke log ek saal ka waqt lagaye hain isliye ek saal tak shahar biwi baat nahi karne se rishta rahega ya nahi aap batayega
Q: I am really confused. Everyone says that in life you can't focus too much on beauty when it comes to a potential suitor. Then, they say "no. But you have to be attracted to him". But then if I am not attracted to anyone except for a very specific few, then "no, you're being too fussy and need to lower your expectations in life" then when I say okay, how do I lower my expectations? How do I force myself to be attracted to somebody who doesn't really match up to what I had in mind? Then they say "No. don't lower your expectations, expect the best from Allah and have faith that he'll give you what you want" then I say okay fine I expect the best. Then they show me somebody and I can't find it in my heart to have the slightest bit of attraction towards them then they say "if you don't find this person good looking you need to lower your expectations" then I ask how , "no have faith in Allah, you'll get what you want" ... so I don't know what to do. first they say expect from Allah then they say lower your expectations. Which do I do and HOW? It's not as if I'm only focusing on looks, I want piety and looks in a person and I'm not willing to compromise on either. Money is not a main focus but looks and piety are. I have never spoken to any non mahrams much in life so i feel like why should my first relationship ever be with someone that is unappealing to my eye? It's not as if I feel deserving or entitled or think that I'm so holy for not ever engaging in haraam relations but I just think it might be a disappointment to have the one relationship you ever have be with someone you just can't seem to be attracted to. Also. If I read "Rabbana Hablana Min Azwajina Wa Dhhuriyatina Qurata A'yewnew waj Alna Lil mutaqina imaama" will I get someone who I find good looking? Because it's a dua for our spouses to be the coolness of our eyes and he can only be a coolness to my eyes if I am attracted to him right? And I will only be attracted to him if he meets my expectations which means that all I have to do is read this dua and have faith and not lower my expectations right?
Q: I would like to know if a divorcee needs a wali for her second nikah or is it allowed for her to make nikah without a wali or the walis permission?
Q: A person, after drinking alcohol, gets intimate with his wife, and the wife concieves. Will this child be considered as legitimate?
Q: How do we hold a Nikah according to Quran and Sunnah?
Q: Can a girl choose her father in law and her brother in law as wali or wakeel of nikah?
Q: A marriage proposal came for my daughter. The boy and his family involve in barelvi practices which we consider baseless, as my family is firm deobandi. In the situation, should I consider this proposal or not? If I refuse it would I be sinful because there is no big issue in the proposal apart from that. Please guide me properly so that it would help further.
Q: I am an unmarried girls of 32 yrs age. I am not getting any good match. One person wants to get married to me as his 2nd wife. My mother is denying to do so. What shall I do.
Q: I am very concerned about my marriage and I need help. I have been married for 5 months now and my husband has not consummated our marriage. Although, he is intimate in other ways and treats me well. I am very disturbed and embarassed to talk to him about the issue. I wanted to know how should I deal with it.