nikaah

Nikaah beghair gawaaho

Q: Baalig jawan ladka or ladki aik dosre ko boht chate hn or aik din plan karke mble pe pore hosho hawas me mobile message pe ladka ladki allah ko hazir jante n gawah jante hue ladka apna name+parents name name 3 times leke pochta h ladk+parents name ka name leke qabool hai 3 message karke n ladki mene qabool kia 3 bar keti hai 3 msgs me n phr ladki ladke se apna name+parents name leke ladke ke walden ka name leke 3 times pochti h apko qabool hai ladka 3 msgs me 3 times bolta hai qabool hai and then phr wo mia bivi tassawur karlete hn apne apko usday se n jb milte hn to sath khate pete n touch karte hn but sex nai karte to kia nikkah hogaya un dono ka msg pe according to shariat ? in short dono jese nikkah hota hai weddings me wese karlete hn allah ko gawah banke to kia hojaega nikkah ?

Uncle representing the girl

Q: I would like to know is it possible for a girl to take her uncle or any other guy relative as her wali while her father is alive? People in my place where I live tell their daughters when the mufti ask you who is your wali then tell him your uncle, etc. So during nikah the girl takes someone else as her wali instead of her father. And that also when the father is alive living with the girl and happy with the marriege? Is this kind of nikah valid? In Islam is this permissible or is it just a cultural thing? I am really confused. I heard in proper Islamic nikah, the wali must be the girl's father unless he is dead.