nikaah

Wedding reception

Q: I have heard from the muftis that wedding reception (feeding by girls family) is not sunnah. If I get invited to such a gathering (which is free from sin), what should I do? Attend or not? Is it the inviter's right for me to attend?

Secret nikaah

Q: If a boy and girl get married with two witnesses, is it valid by him asking and she agreeing to the marriage? Also what is the ruling on marrying a girl older than you by a few years?

Intercourse

Q: For a newly married couple, how many times is advisable to have intercourse? We were married for seven weeks. My wife was in haidh for two weeks (the week of the marriage and after returning from umrah). Then she went for umrah for 3 weeks and we had some issues for the other 2 weeks. Thereafter we had relations 6 times in the next 3 days (morning and evening). My wife is extremely worried weather this is normal? Previously Mufti Saheb had advised on a published Fatwa twice a week but if a married couple were to have relations every day or twice in 3 days would this be a problem or is it natural?

Hurmat-e-Musaaharah

Q: Takreban 33 sal pehle humare taya or abu ki 2 behno ke sath shadi hoi yani do behno 2 bhaio ki pochna ye ha ke humare taya ke meri nani ke sath najaiz taluqat thi kyu ke pehle ye kiraydar or malik makan thy nani log malik makan thy abu log kiraedar phir nana ne shadia kar de janty bojty or shadi ke bad bhi taya ek waqt tak milty rahea nani se. Khandaan ke bardo ko bhi elm tha per ye shadia hoi ab ma inki sharae haqeqat pochna chahti hu k ye nikah valid ha k nai ab taya k bhi 5 bachy ha or hum bhi 5 beHan bhai ha or dosra ab kia kea ja sakta ha? Taya log bohat hi bure haal ma ha bohat arsy se rehnumai farmae Meharbani hogi.

Getting married after committing zina

Q: I had a question, I commited zina with a woman who is my wife. She got pregnant at the time however we did not repent at that time. The imam that married us was aware that she was pregnant but he did not make us do tobah. We got married and then we had repented for what we had done. We both were not aware at the time that you must repent or the marriage may be invalid. It has been four years since and I wish to know is our marriage valid or invalid.