Dawat and Tabligh

Men staying at home during ladies taleem

Q: Ladies taleem is arranged at different houses each week for 45 minutes. When taleem is at a specific house, can the men of the house still be there, in another room, as long as they don't interact with the ladies doing taleem? So as long as the men stay in another room, and dont walk pass the ladies, or directly overhear them, will it be ok? Or must the men leave the house entirely before the ladies arrive?

Questions relating to Tabligh

Q: Having been with Tabligh Jamaat for the last 20 years. I have seen a lot of benefits, I did 4 months, 40 days regularly and believed that this was the 73rd group that will go to Jannah. Since we had the split, I am at a standstill. After the split, I don't know if it's Shaytaan or my eyes has opened up. I have some questions to recalibrate myself to better understand our deen. I was an extremist jamaat saathi but after the split, I saw so many ghibaat and programs against each other. I said to myself that this is not what I learned from our elders. I learned to build one ummat and no critic. 'saab ko lekal challo'...

All my questions are related to talks and bayannat of Tabligh Jamaat in which I had full conviction. Now I feel a bit at a loss…

01. HIDAYAT HIDDEN IN QURBANI
Hidayaat is based on effort and qurbani. By effort & qurbani is meant the way
Tabligh teaches us effort & qurbani by ONLY going out in Allah’s path.

02. TODAYS QURBANI
What qurbani should we do as an individual of our time and how do you qualify
the qurbani asked by Tabligh Jamaat

03. WHAT RELATION WITH ABISINIA AND TODAY’S MASTURATE JAMAAT
Tabligh Jamaat use the wakiah of sahaba with wife going to abysinia as first masturate
jamaat to prove or promote ladies jamaat.. Is it ok

04. OUR RESPONSIBILITY TOWARDS THE DEEN
Tabligh Jamaat talks a lot about our responsibility regarding this deen as an individual.
Can you highlight our responsibilities as an ummat and a man of this era

05. MAKSAD THAT DEEN GOES TO THE LAST PERSON TILL KIYAMA
Tabligh Jamaat often says that our work/ maksad is to make the deen reach to the last
person before Kiyamat. As far as I know, before Kiyamat, only kafir will prevail on
earth as all muslim will die thru the blow of wind. How would you rate this saying

06. PROBLEMS ARE RELATED TO THE WORK OF DAWAAT
After dawaat stopped, problems come from Allah. An example is Moosa As going to the mount and down here gold cow was ready. Why this happens because dawaat stopped.
Your comment

07. WHAT IS THE MAKSAD OF THIS UMMAT & AN UMMATI
What is the ummat maksad and what the maksad or role of an ummati.

08. WOMAN AND THEIR RESPONSIBILITY TO DO DAWAAT
What is the responsibility of the women in Islam vis a vis the ummat. How can they achieve it?  If they want to go to jamaat alhamdulillah. But what about those ladies who don’t go in jamaat.

09. ALLAH’S HELP IS IN WORK OF TABLIGH OR DAWAAT
Allah’s help is attached to the work of Tabligh. As if Tabligh Jamaat has exclusivity on that.
Can you enlighten us on this?

10. TASKEEL & NIYAT
Tabligh Jamaat says make niyat and get the sawab. I know I won’t go but still make the
Niyat to get sawaab. It does not sound right. Please advise

11. DAWAAT AND AMAAL ISTEKAMAT
People leave amaal because they don’t give dawaat on the amaal. Give dawaat on a particular amaal will bring that amaal in your life. Example – give dawaat to read quran, you will read. Give dawaat for takbir Oula, you will get takbir oula. Can you comment on this

12. AMAAL ISTEKAMAAT NOT GUARANTEED WITOUT DAWAAT
Thus this makes me afraid of those people who come to masjid early and do their azkaar but don’t give dawaat. They may lose these amaals as they don’t do or give dawaat like Tabligh Jamaat. If I become one of them, I am not safe from erring from the right path. Tabligh Jamaat even said that even after 20 years, the man can leave the swalaat because he did not give dawaat. – Please comment

12. DO DAWAAT & GET 7 GENERATION GUARANTEED ON THE RIGHT PATH
Tabligh Jamaat says that if you do Tabligh Jamaat style dawat. Your 7 generation will be rightly guided. After 20 years I can see many old sathis children not making namaz… let alone the 7th, the very 1st generation itself is not on the right path. Can you comment, please

13. BADRI SAHABA X 3 DID NOT JOIN IN TABOOK JIHAAD
Tabligh Jamaat uses the wakiah of 3 sahaba that did not join the Tabook expedition. They were boycotted for almost 50 days and then Allah forgave them They were Badri and they were sanctioned… Now if we do not do dawaat tabligh, imagine what will happen to us. Can you enlighten us on the relation of this wakiah and Tabligh Jamaat.

I apologies for putting so many questions. Just for you to be in the context, I am from Mauritius.

Serving special meals to Ulama

Q: If in a gathering where meals are served, there are Ulama as well as non Ulamaa who are present. Will it be against the Sunnah to present normal meals to the general people and special meals to the Ulamaa?

We find the same scenario in the Ijtima where there is a special section for the Ulamaa' wherein extras special meals are served. Will it be against simplicity for an A'alim to eat in the Ulamaa section in the Ijtima?

Why are men given more opportunities to earn reward?

Q:

1. My question is that only males in Islam are promised to get numerous angels/hoors in accordance with the good deeds they do? What about a Muslimah who performs the same deeds? Why aren’t they also promised to get angels?

2. I came across numerous Islamic bayaans by great learned people saying that Allah has promised the best reward for people who do Tab’leegh and the ajar (reward) for a person doing Tab’leegh is incomparable with those who don’t do it..

My question is what about the wives who sit back at the home looking after kids and other family affairs while their husbands are busy doing Tab’leegh? Also the rules for women for doing Tab’leegh don’t allow them frequently to go out in jamaats on contrary to which men can go whenever they want leading to numerous amount of good deeds for them? Why only men are given opportunities to earn a bigger jannah for them?