suspended talaaq

Suspending talaaq without the intention of talaaq

Q: My wife lives with our kids in our home country in the upper portion of the house while my parents and younger sisiter stay in the lower portion. I live in some other country. There were alot of conflicts between my wife and parents. One day, I asked my wife to stop going downstairs to avoid any further arguments. I threatened her by saying that if she goes down, our relation will be over without any intention of divorcing her. She asked me about going downstairs to use washroom to wash our baby which I allowed her. She went down, washed the baby and use one of the room to change the baby's diaper many times after that. When I went home, she sat many timmes with me downstairs. Things got normal after a few days and my wife made up with my parents. She also started going down to speak to them. However, she did not ask me before going down and I have no problem with that. Is there anything wrong we have done? 

Suspended talaaq

Q: I had an argument with me wife and stopped her from going to my sisters place. I warned her that if she does the same thing again, our relationship will be over. However, later I calmed down and forgot the matter. After some time my wife went to my sisters place and I am fine with that. My question is, does her activity invalidate our marriage?

Talaaq ko mu'allaq karna

Q: Kuch din pehle mere shohar ne mjh pr aik shart lagai th talaq ki agr tm ne kbh mjhe dhoka dia mtlab merr hoty huy kisi k sath afair kia to tmhe 3 talaq ho ge...thore din bd ma main ne un se pocha ap ki nazar ma dhoka kia hota h or wo jo alfaz ap ne shirt k kahe thy k ye krne se tmhe 3 talaq ho ge wo kon se shart th k kia krne se mjhe talaq ho ge wo kis kam ka kaha tha k agr ma ye kam krun ge to ap ka or mera rishta khatam ho jaye ga..to unho ne bagair sochy smjhe kehty gaye apne koi bt apni kisi frnd se share ni krna ye bh dhoka h kisi gair mard se bila waja bat ni krna ye bh dhoka ha or ye bh shart h meri... kisi se bilkul qareb khare ho k bt ni krna ye bh shart ma ata h or etc.lekin ksi bh shirt k sath talaq ka lafz ni lagaya bus ye kaha k ye bh shirt ha wo bh shirt h..jb k bd ma unho ne kaha k mri shart sirf usi bt pe th k mre hoty huy ksi k sath afair ni krna warna 3 talaq ho ge bus baqi jo bh ma me kaha us ma talaq ki shart ni th or na he mri niyat ma tha to mera sawal ye ha k agr ma apni ksi dost se bt krun ya ksi gair mard se bt krun to talaq waqae ho ge?jb k un ki niyat ma ni tha unho ne mera ye sawal pochne pr k konsi bt pr ap ne 3 talaq ka kaha tha k kia krne se or ks shart se mjhe talaq ha...is k jawab pr kaha mri ye shart h wo shart h or etc ..jb k un ki ye sb shartein ni th...or na he unho ne ksi shart k agy ye lagaya k agr gair mard se bt ki to talaq ya apni ksi dost se bt ki to talaq...bus ye kaha tha k mri yeh bh shart h or wo bh shart h or bad ma halfia kaha k mri shart sirf usi pr h k kisi k sath affair ni krna baqi ksi bt pr ni

Mu'allaq Talaaq

س: ایک آدمی کسی مصلحت کی وجہ سے بیوی کو اپنے بہنوئی کے گھر جا نے سے روکنا چاہتا ہے اور یہ ارادہ ہے کہ بیوی کو طلاق باشرط رجعی دے گا اب جب وہ گھر آئی تو میاں نے غصے مین اپنے بات کا اظہار اس طرح کیا: "کہ میں نے آپکی بہن کی آواز فون پہ سنا ہے اسلیئے اگر تم اس کے گھر گئی تو میری بیوی نہیں تم پر طلاق ہوگی" کچھ وقفہ کے بعد شوھر نےکہا وضاحت کیلیے : کہ چونکہ آواز سے پتہ نہیں لگتا کہ کونسی بہن ہے اسلیئے اب وہ مجہول ہے اسلیئے اب تم دونوں بہنوں کے گھر نہیں جا سکتی"

1: کیا اس پر طلاق باشرط رجعی واقعہ ہوگی یا باین ، یا ایک رجعی اور دوم باین؟

2: شوھر کو دو بہنوں پر شک ہے اب متعین نہیں کہ کونسی بہن ہے اگر کسی وجہ سے متعین ہو جائے تو صرف اس کے گھر کے ساتھ معلق ہوگی یا جو شوھر نے وضاحت کیلیے جو بات کہی "کچھ وقفہ کے بعد شوھر نےکہا وضاحت کیلیے : کہ چونکہ آواز سے پتہ نہیں لگتا کہ کونسی بہن ہے اسلیئے اب وہ مجہول ہے اسلیئے اب تم دونوں بہنوں کے گھر نہیں جا سکتی" تواس جملے پر اب وہ دونوں بہنوں کے گھر نہیں جاسکتی ؟ برائے مہربانی شریعت کے مطابق رہنمائی فرمائیں

Suspended talaaq

Q: Due to a conflict between my in-laws and me, I left my wife at her parents home with the condition to solve this prolonged issue within 10 (ten) days. I said to her to tell her parents that if this issue is not sorted out by her parents withen 10 days then you (she) must stay at your (her) parents home. I will not be responsible for you and your future. After this period all efforts from your parents side will be useless. They did not contact me at that time, and now they approached me after three months. Can we continue our marital life now or is the separation done?

Talaaq ko mu'allaq karna

Q: Mera sawal ya hai k agar 1 shakhs (admi/ladka) kisi third person se baat kar raha hota hai k us ki wife (bivi) us ki baat nahi sunti us se ijazat nahi lati kisi b kaam k liye or in wajohat ki bina pa aksar jahagra hota hai, app us se baat kar k us ko samjhiye k ase mamlat ane wale waqat me na dohraay wara baat zada kharab ho jaay gi agar asa phir se kya meri jayaz baat na mani bina ijazat ana jana or mashwara na liya to phir wo meri teraf se farige... Ya ane wale waqt k liye kaha ase surat me kya shari huqam ho ga ..? Laikn ya baat wife se nahi kar raha tha na hi wo mojood thi wo kisi k sath baat kar raha tha or baat ane wale waqt ki ki 

Conditional divorce ko dobaara karne se talaaq dobaara hogi?

Q: Agr koi shohar apni wife per conditional divorce rakhy k agr tm ne kabhi falan kam kia to tmhe mri traf se talaq ho ge or wife wo kam kar le aik talaq ho jaye or ruju bh ho jaye to ab dobara wo kam krme pr talaq to ni ho ge na qk shohar ne "whenever, jab bh" ka alfaz istemal ni kia tha bus ye kaha tha agr kbhi falan kam kro ge to tmhara mra rishta khatm ho jaye ga or tmhe mri taraf se talaq ho ge ye ni kaha tha k jb jb ya jb bh kro tmhe talaq ho ge

Talaaq kisi shart par mu'allaq karna

Q: Eak bhot bada gunha hua hai mujh se plz mujhe jald azjald kuch rhenumayee karen

Shadi ho k baad bivi k bf k barey ilm hua tab hi bivi se kha ki aaj k baad ager tu us se mili baat kari ya salaam dua kari dekh kar hansi to tera mera rishta khatm. Nikha tut jayega iss baat k khene k eak hafte me wo shart puri hagyee us wakt mai khood mjood tha bivi k sath mager thode fasle per in sab baton ka ilm nhi tha hum dono sath hi rhete they miya bivi ki tarha teen haiz guzrne k baad hamal ka test kiya to pata chala ki bivi hamal se hai us k baad bhot zada mali pareshani or ghar me be sokooni hone lagi choti chti baton per jhgda hota tha fir 5 mahine guzarne per bivi ko teen talak mashroot diya kisi k ghar jane per wo bhi akele wo shart bhi eak muddat tak thi baccha hone tak bivi kheti hai shart puri hochki hai baccha bhi hochuka hai lekin jab shohar ne jin logo k ghar jane per teen talak kha tha wo log khete hai wo akele kbhi nhi ayee or kisi k sath bhi baccha abhi baap k pass hai bivi ghar walon ne jiss din baccha hua ussi din bacche ko la kar de diya doodh bhi nhi pilaya maa ka ab dono shohar wapes lana chata hai bivi ko kya begair halale k bivi ko nikha me la skta hai or jo gunha hua hai us ka kaffara kya hoga or mai sari baat batana chata tha mukami muftiyaan se mager zena hota rha or zena se bacccha bhi hogaya Mai bhot pareshan hun kya krun khud ko khatm karna chhata hun.