Music, Nasheeds and Nazams

Room mates playing music

Q: I know that listening to music is forbidden in Islam. I reside in a hostel with 3 room-mates. Sometimes, they play songs, videos on loudspeaker and other students from different rooms also join them. In this case, what should I do? Since we live in secular country, I can't tell them to stop as everyone is free to do anything one desires

Unsuitable words in naats and nazams

Q: I am in a doubt. Nowadays there is been a trend of Islamic naats, naat e sharif which are dedicated to our respective Prophet Muhammed Sallallahu Alaihi Wassalam in which they use words like" tujhe" " tera" tu, I feel that these words are not suitable for our beloved and respected prophet (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam). So my question to you is, it permissable to listen or sing such naats?

Naats, nazams and nasheeds

Q: Is it permissible to listen to anaasheed, nazms etc if it does not have any musical instrument involved and follows the rules of Shar'iah i.e. no singing by women. Also if it is not used for entertainment/pleasure and is not interfering in anyway with our ma'mulaat or daily routine?