Jannah

Enjoying jannah or jahannum from the grave

Q:

1. I have some confusion about the day of judgement. There is a Hadith saying that if someone recite Ayatul kursi after each faraz namaz, the only distance between him and paradise is his death. What after we die, whether we will wait in our qabar for the day of judgement or will go to paradise in this case?

2. A killer who is dead now will wait till the day of qiyaamat or will he get the punishment right after his death. If right after his death then what will be on the day of Judgment? Please explain with authentic sources.

Hoors

Q: In jannah hoors are described as gifts for righteous men and a hadith of tirmidi says that if a woman hurt her husband then the hoors curse her and say he is with you temporarily. He is going to return to us.

1. I need to know why are hoors only for men. I am not saying women deserve something like this but at least what is this curse. I mean we are human. Little fights are common. Then why is this privilege only for men. Even men hurt women. Why is there no Hadith for that.

2. Why women are treated like baseless things. My Imaan becomes weak. Are we useless creations? Then why this partiality? Please explain in detail. I want to know. I am very stressed.