Masturbation and Pornography

Q: What naseehat can be given to one who is addicted to pornography?

Q: I have heard that it is ok for Hanafis to masturbate if there is a serious chance of falling into sin and masturbating can help to relieve some of that sexual tension thus avoiding the sin. Is this true? If it is true, is it fine if I masturbate so that it is easier to avoid watching pornography?

Q: I have a problem (of making ghusal farz by hands) for the last 5 years. I have tried my best to leave it. Once, I have been able to leave it for 3 months but after that I was caught by it again. I have asked forgiveness every time from Almighty Allah and alhmdulillah He has blessed me every time, but I couldnt leave the sin.

I am average in ibadaat. Sometimes I perform salaah 5 times a day for a month or few months and sometimes I leave it out for a few days and sometimes I dodge a few prayers.

Kindly tell me a simple and easy solution to leave out this sin. 

Q: My friend is into pornography and she wants to stay away from it but every time she does, she goes back. She asked me to help her but I do not have no idea what to tell her because I have no words when she said it.

Q: I am an unmarried male close to my thirties. My urges have become very extreme and sometimes out of control. My parents are not agreeing on getting me married. I am now very worried due to the fear that I might fall into the sinful act of zina due to my extreme urges. My question is that is it ok in Islam if I kill my sex drive permanently or become impotent by my own wish in order to avoid adultery?

Q: I got a problem of misusing my hands. Can you please give me some advice on how to stop it? I try but I fall again in it.

Q: What is considered more haraam, masturbation for men or men having friendship with a woman?

Q: Is pornography a Dajjaal system?

Q: Is masturbation allowed in Islam or not? If no, why because according scientific research its a normal habit.