anger

Ghussa qaboo me rehna

Q: Meri age 25 hai. Mein jana chata hou k mujhy ghusa bht ata hai jis ki waja sy mein kafi pareshan rehta hou mujhy jab ghusa ata hai toh mera mujh pe kaboo nai rehta jis ki waja sy mein logon ko kafi nuksan phoncha dyta hou. Koi esa tareeka hai k mein apny ghusy pe kaboo paaa saku? 

Controlling one's anger

Q: I have very bad anger problems. I struggle to control myself and I get angry very quickly and I can’t stay patient. I am 17 years old and I have made a mistake where I swore at my older uncle angrily. What is the best way do deal with this?

Three talaaqs in anger

Q: I want to ask about divorce. I have heard that you have to give your wife divorce 3 times in 3 months for it to count is that true. My husband gave me divorce in anger after few hours was back with me saying that it doesn't count in anger. He didn't know what he was saying and also that he have to give me 3 times in 3 months for it to count. Also want to ask if divorce count in period and in pregnancy and if husband do give in pregnancy but the next day or after few hours says he was angry, then does it count or not. Also if the wife is pregnant and is a lot angry and tell the husband to divorce her, keep on saying it and the husband get angry and say it even tho he didn't mean to say it, does it count?

Controlling one's anger

Q: I am getting angry and cannot control it. I do not stop to reason and calm down but I just blurt out whatever I want to say without thinking to my husband, and when he leaves the house I get back to my senses and think what is wrong with me. I have very bad scary dreams and I am very restless at night when sleeping. Secondly I want to know if rukya is permissible and can it be done by a female? My third question. I am in a 2nd marriage and I have kids from my first marriage. How do I divide my property, car, pension fund and money in the bank? I have one son and 2 daughters.

Gussay me talaaq dena

Q: Meri shadi ko 10 saal ho gaey hain after 6 month of marriage meri husband sy kisi baat py larae hoe or onho ny gussey mein talaaq ka lafz use kia 1 baar per ye confirm nae k wording kia the.

1. Talaaq dy daita hn

2. Talaaq daita hn

Os time mein pregnant the. Kch dair baad jab sab normal ho gya to husband ny kaha meiny aisa kch nae kaha or na he meri aisi intention ho sakti hy.os k baad humny as a couple apni life ko continue kia. 2nd time after 3 years mein again pregnant the doctor ny mujhy junk food sy mana kia tha or mein wohe kha rahe the os bàat py husband ny phr without intention divorce ka word use kia. Husband ki condition ye hy k wo gussey mein bht extreme level py chaley jaatey hain baad mein onko khud b yaad nae rehta k onho ny kia bola tha.

My 2nd Question is ager aurat ya mard napaaki ki halat mein divorce dy to kia tallaaq ho jaey gi?

Drug addict issuing talaaq in anger

Q: Want to ask if a man is really really angry and he is a drug addict. In bad anger he doesn't know what he is doing. Then he say 2 talak to woman and woman didn't hear it. Some family member heard it, then what? Man is fully on heroin for the last 20 years and he said it in anger. It was bad anger. After we mention it to him that he said that, he said that he doesn't know. Is it acceptable or not?