Tasawwuf

Q: Shariat ki lughat me Fana-fir-Rasool ka matlab kya hota hai?

Q: Mureed kab hona (age)? My age is 18?

Q: Kya har muslum ke lei zaroori hai ke wo kesi waliullah ya sheikh se bay'at (us ke bataei huei kaam or amal kare) le ya nahe?