adopting purda

Khwaab ki ta'beer

Q: Aaj mere istekhara ka 3rd day tha. Mene dekha me or meri friend kahi bahar the or barish hori thi humlog auto ka wait krre bt auto nai milti he phr ek auto milti he usme humlog baithte he. Meri friend meri godi me baith jati he or humlog hasre he ek dusre ko dekh ne auto se utarte he to dekhti hu humlog mere ghar ke pas h humlog ghr aate h to ghr me ammi nai dikhte h diwan pe jis ladke se shadi krna chahti hu wo baithe the or hum dono itta khush hojate h ek dusre ho dekh k itti smile krre h bs itta hi dekha iska kya matlab hota he?

Observing purdah

Q: I started practising purdah since marriage and encouragement from my wife. As a result my female cousins and their parents have taken offence and caused disunity. I work in a hospital amongst nurses and female colleagues (doctors). How do I correct my home situation? What stance must I take regarding family functions/dawats? How do I behave at work? Am I allowed to speak to staff colleagues regarding patient matters and my other work arrangements? Am I allowed to: 1. Initiate a greeting? 2. Treat female patients? 3. Give feedback to female spouses?

Tamaam na mahram larkiyou owr awrato ke saat purda karna

Q: Mainay dekha kay meri barri phupho ki beti 'H' bemaar hoti hai apnay ghar may lekin woh hamaray ghar aa kar dewaar ke sath neechay bath jati hai. Phir aur log bhi aa jatay hain aur 'N' be aati hai jissay may pyar karta hoon. Phir sab meri dadi ke ghar jatay hain jahan par may 'N' pass ja kar kharay honay ki koshish karta hoon magar meri behn us k sath khari ho jati hai aur may thoray faaslay par khara ho jata hoon. Please es khuwaab ki tabeer btayaain jitna jaldi ho sakay.

Remaining in pious company

Q: I just had a very strange dream but I feel there could be some significance to the dream. I dreamt that the boys father who I like to marry was an Imaam in Makkah. He was standing in front of the Ka'bah and was about to give a bayaan and as he was about to start someone shot him and he died on the spot. This dream feels as if it has some significance to it. Please explain further.

Khwaab ki ta'beer

Q: Mai nay kal khwaab may dekha ke 13 dost hotay hain. Wo sub akser ek tahkhanay may jama ho k shugal lagatay hain in may larkay or larkiya mix hotay hain. Lakin phir usi tah khanay may un may say ek dost apne sub dosto ko bari bari maar deta hai..or un sub k tukray tukray ke k alug alug boxes may jama ker k rukhta hai.jub akhri do dost rah jatay hain to wo thora idher udher hota hai to wo dost apni jaan bacha k bhaag jata hai ..lakin katil dost phir usko paker leta hai ...katil dost phir thor sa idher udher hota hai to phir wohi dost bhaag jata hai or bhagta bhaagta kuchi abadio may pohanch jata hai.jaha chotay or kuchay Matti k gher banay hotay hain waha ek Dari wala admi usko dekhta hai or bolta hai tum kafi ghabraye huay lagtay ho samnay masjij hai waha ja k dua kro gay to tumhay sakoon milay ga..jub wo masjid me thora waqt guzar ker bahir nikalta hai to usay apne maray huay dosto me say ek dost sabzi bechta hua nazer aata hai ..wo usko apni taraf bulata hai or usay apne gher le jata hai...waha wo sabzi wala apne sub dosto ko ikutha kerta hai to wo sub dost wohi hotay hain jinko katil dost nay maar diya hota hai ..lakin Jo katil dost hota hai wo itna chota nazer ata hai k sub k foot se b chota hota hai....phir fajer ki azan ho jati hai or meri ankh khul jati hai.... Kuch ajeeb sa khab hai.. na to mai asay dramay dekhti hu or na asa sochti hu .or na he mere itnay dost hain..ager is khawab ki koi Tabeer hai to aap muje plz reply kerain .mai bohut upset hu is khab se.....shukriya .jawab ki muntazir

Observing strict purda with non-mahrams

Q: Recently I had a dream which was very strange. I need an interpretation urgently. I had the dream after fajr when I went to sleep. The dream is as follows: My cousin and I went to a girl's house, I knew her from school as she was in the same grade as me, I was also inclined to her. When we got there, the entrance hall of the house was huge, like that of a masjid. It was also beautifully decorated, with a chandelier and glossy white cupboards in the front. I looked around in amazement. My cousin and I continued to proceed further and we came to another hall, which was a bit smaller than the previous Hall. This hall did not attract me as much as the previous one. The carpet colour in both the halls were a creamy beige colour. I proceeded through the second Hall until I reached the passage, where there were many rooms. The rooms had three stairs going up towards the bed and the stairs started from the door. i.e if you open the door you'll have to climb up as the bed was built on a higher foundation. We looked in every room until we reached the girl's room. I did not see her sleeping on the bed at first and I told my cousin that she was not there, then he said to me that she's on the bed and then I saw her. I didn't want to disturb her, so I quickly closed the door and continued to her parents room, the house was completely empty at the time. Just me my cousin and the girl. When we reached the room, I lied down on the bed and in front of me was a bathtub with the wall behind it tiled, with a 1 tile mosaic (wave shape) separating the wall. At that moment I was thinking of her father and brothers living in their house. Then I exited the room and I walked back to the entrance hall. This time there were many Muslim people and it seemed like they were having some kind of program like a ta'leem or something, but one person was reading from a book and the crowd were listening. I didn't want to speak to the girl now as there were many people there. So I waited until they went away and then all of sudden myself and my cousin and the girl were sitting in a circle together and talking. (Then I woke up partially and I realised that I hadn't asked her for her number, so I forced myself to go to sleep halfway) then I saw something like a screen with a picture on our which said that I should think of something which I saw previously on a certain wall and when I thought of it, then I was taken to the girl with my cousin, and we asked her for her number and she gave it, and my cousin phoned or and her phone rang. After this I woke up and ever since this dream had been troubling me. Please can you interpret it.