Q:
1. I would like to know what is the punishment for a man who does not treat his wives equally?
2. Also a man has taken a second wife. She is a divorcee and her first husband was having an affair with a woman of disrepute. Now the first wife is very concerned about herself with regard to her H.I.V status. Does she have a right to request that the second wife take a test and that she is shown the results before continuing relations with her husband?
Q: Can Allah forgive a person who has committed blasphemy even being a Muslim?
Q: There's a thing that is troubling me a lot. I'm a person who has not much knowledge of Deen and is also stricken with waswas. My waswas were in the form of really complicated questions, about Allah's attributes, whether something is in Quran/Hadith or not, whether this thing is attributed to the Holy Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) or not etc. I used to note these down in my phone so that I'd ask someone about these, and that caused the questions to increase that I have this answer in my mind, what if I have done kufr. Then I used to say that Ya Allah if any of this is kufr, forgive me. Is that the right thing to do? Also should I delete all these questions from my phone or seek answers for them in case I have unknowingly done kufr?
Q: Me aik larki k sath relation me hn. Hum log 4 years say aik sath hain me peechly 2 saal say Pakistan say bhr hn. Jab me Pakistan me tha to sub kuch thk tha magar jab say yahan aya hn to Sheytan kay hamlon aur apni galtion ki waja say us larki ko bina kapron k daikh chuka hn me sachy dil say usky sath shadi karna chahta hn magar ab masla yeh ha k meri abhe 1 bari behn ki shadi ni ho rahe is waja say me rishta ni bejh sak raha aur jis larki ko pasand karta hn wo bht jazbati larki ha wo aik so suicide ki koshish bhe kar chuki ha. Wo larki ameer gar say ha aur jab bhe shadi ki baat hoti ha to wo mehngi chezon ki he baat karti ha jab k me aik middle class gar say hn aur wo chahti ha me apny gar walon ko chor k usky sath kahen akaila rahn jo me nahe kar sakta. Ab me agar us say alag hota hn to wo khud ko maar lay ge aur agar sath rehta hn to shayad uski zarooriat puri na kar sakn aur jab tak sister ki shadi nahe hoti tb tak rishta bhe nahe bejh sakta. Meri rehnumai farmaen me kya karn me us say shadi karna chahta hn magar kuch samajh nahe arai kya karn?
Q: Is it wrong for me to stay away from my wife because she will not wear hijab? I told her that she should wear hijab nicely and I encourage her by teaching her how important it is. After I realized that she does not want to change, I stopped seeing her.
Also, before marriage she told me that she would do it. Alhumduallah I have changed a lot since marriage and I don't want to support her sins as I am responsible for it. Since I stopped seeing her, she got upset and now she likes to ignore me at times.
Also is it wrong for her to be very close to and hang out with her male cousins? She also sends them pictures without hijab daily with sweet text messages. I asked her to stop and she won't.
Q: My neighbour is a 2nd wife and has 2 boys (13 and 15). She lost her older son 2 years ago. She was in pardah but started getting out of control. She brings strange men in her house that take her childrens phones, games, playstation only to mention a few. She is on drugs and started drinking alcohol. She comes home in the early parts of the morning leaving her kids without food most of the time. She swears and shout at them when she is home. I have contacted her family who are good people. All her sisters are in pardah. They are also fed up with her but my concern is the boys.
My question is, from an Islamic point of view, am I allowed to let the child welfare know about this or is it wrong? I just feel these boys will be better off without her because she is traumatizing them. I have spoken to her and she said she dont care about them as this is her life now.
Q: Mera shohar buhut deendar hay magar us ka mizaj n akhlaq mere sath acha nahee hay har do char din baad bagher kisi waja k mood kharab ho jata hay hamaree shadee ko kae sal ho gae hyn mere dil say un ke muhabbat bilkul khatam ho gae hay jee chahta k wo mujhe hath b na lagaen kia myn un say ye keh sakte hoon gunah tu na hoga.
Q: I'm a mum and my daughter went to marry a guy behind our backs and it's her second marriage. We were not happy about it but she says that she's very happy. She only told me this yesterday and her father doesn't even know yet and I'm very worried what he's reaction will be. I have disowned her. Have I done the right thing? There two little grandchildren of mine which I have disowned too and it's hurting me very badly. Please advice.
Q: I have accepted Islam by saying the shahadah only. I want to practice Islam completely but I am not able to get in it because my family is against Islam very strictly. If I tell them about it, they will not think twice about killing me. I am not scared of dying, my fear is about this that I have not been able to perform salah and I am unable to do such things which are farz for a Muslim. If I died like this, then Allah will punish me alot, this is the reason, I fear death. I tried to explain to my household that they should abandon idol worship, but they became very angry and I did not tell them further about Islam. I am trying to change them for the last 1 year but nothing has happened till now and I have to go to the temples even though I don't want to go with them to do some Hindu rituals. I have some questions for you:
1. Is it justified to leave the house because of this condition for me?
2. I have heard that any person who says "Subhna Allahu wa Bihamdihi" 100 times a day, all his sins will be forgiven?
3. If I die here accidently, before leaving my family, without completely getting in to Islam, will Allah forgive me?
4. According to you, what should I do at this point in my life?
You are welcome if you want to give me more advices regarding to my life.
Q: I just wanted to know if a girl is pious, has good character and is from a good home, but she is not from the same caste (surti and non surti), is it a good enough reason for my parents to not allow me to marry her?