advice

Having dislike for someone

Q: I have this housemates that talks about people. She had talked about me and I confirmed it that she did. Since then I dread her completely and never want anything to come between us but we do exchange greetings and if she needs assistance I render it if I can but nothing more. This keeps disturbing me because each day my dislike for her increases. What should I do?

Gifts received before nikaah

Q:

1. I have married my husband with the intention of fulfilling my needs and after it to get a divorce from him. But now Alhamdulillah I realized that it’s very wrong and now I love him and want to be with him. So is our marriage valid?

2. Before marriage we did many things but not intercourse. So should I only repent to Allah?

3. Before marriage he gave me gifts like dresses, laptop, etc which I’m still using. So will it be permissible to use it now?

4. Few months ago he once said that you are divorced thrice but few minutes later he said it was due to anger. It’s been 2 years now but we still cannot do intercourse because I fear a lot. So is our marriage valid?

Bimaar bachcha ka naam badalna

Q: Mera beta 25 September ko hua Hai us ka Nam hum ne Muhammad Azaan rkha Hai us k baba ka Nam Nadeem Ashraf Hai wo thek nahi rehta dood maa ka to peeta hi nahi 1 month or 4 din ka ho gya Hai dabby ka dood pee kr b vomiting kr deta Hai rota bht Hai or sota b Kam Hai Kya ye Nam us k liye bhari Hai ya koi or masla Hai

Marital problems

Q: Mera nikaah hova ha ruksati nhi hovi me ne apni bivi ko kisi ar k sat sekha ha pics dekhi ha us ki galt kam kerty hove mujay keya hukam ha Allah ki terf se me keya ker sakta hn chor do ya maf ker do dobra ka paka wada kya ha us ne mujay umed ha wo mere sat chle ge meri bat mane ge

How to come out of interest

Q: I am 18 years old. Some years back my mom took a debt from someone on interest because we wanted money to get my elder sister married and she took this decision to borrow money because my dad is not responsible enough as he had been through alot of business failures and was jobless..Its been 4 years and my mother has been paying interest from a really long time and now when we have no money the money lenders are troubling us alot... They torture us so much that sometimes I start losing faith in life... They torture us to the core... They scare us by telling us that if we don't give them money then they are going to tell this to all the people around and also my sister's husband which will lead to a utter shame for my parents... They speak so cheap about us that sometimes I feel that dying is much better than seeing your parents in this condition... We don't have money at all and day by day the interest has increased. Please make dua's for the betterment of my family and please tell me some zikr or dua to get rid of this debt... I'm tired and at this young age I'm falling apart...

Premarital relationship

Q: Im in a relationship with someone and we want to marry each other as soon as possible but because of the halat we are not able to marry each other. My parents are against our relationship and his parents are fine with the relationship. I dont know what to do? I want him. I dont know how to make this relationship in to husband and wife? What should I do so that my parents can accept him and our relationship? What dua or wazifa should I do to get him? 

Shaadi ke liye maa baap se baat karna

Q: Mai bohat pareshan hu..mera rishta bachpan me mere dada ne mere phupu k ladke k sath fix kie the...to isi wajah se main aur mere phupu ka ladka ek dusre se baat karte the..wo america chale gae..fir b hum baat karte rehte the...wo mujhse wada kare the k mujhse hi shadi karenge...par unke maa baap mane nhi..aur unki shadi karadie wnha...mujhe nhi samaj araha k mai kya karu..wo kehte hai k phn pe nikaah karlenge ab..badme sabko batadenge.mai kya karu...ap mujhe sahi rasta kya hai bata dijie

Boy insisting on marrying a girl

Q: A boy wants to marry me but he is already married and soon to be a father too. I try to ignore him but he is so possessive and said he will marry me whatever happens and he will try everything to marry me. He is doing wazeefas and he has a rohani mashire too. The boy is so commiteed to marry me but I am so worried because I can't live with his wife. I cant bear it because he stops every marriage proposal that comes to my house for me. Please help me.