oath

Taking an oath that one will become a kaafir

Q: I made an oath that I won’t do a particular thing in my life ever again at any time in the future. If I do, I will become a kaafir. In the Tamil language any time gives the meaning of whenever, anytime in the future also used instead of whenever. I don’t know exact what I meant. Some times I feel like I might have used whenever word also. Now how can I be free from this oath. Does that mean I will become kaafir whenever I doit ?

Breaking an oath

Q: I made an oath that I won’t do a particular thing ever again (anytime in the future). If do it then will it be considered as shirk? Now I broke it so does that mean whenever I do it again it will be considered as shirk even after I broke the oath?

Making a promise/vow without saying it verbally

Q:

1. If a person promises something to Allah without verbally uttering it, is the promise binding? If he/she does not fulfill the promise will he/she be sinning?

2. If someone says to Allah that I will do such and such, but he/she did not say the word ‘promise’ to Allah and nor did he/she use the word ‘vow’ or ‘oath’. In this case, if the person does not do such and such action, will he/she be sinning?

Qasam torna

Q: Mera sawal ye hai k 4 saal pehle mje aik larke ne kaha tha k wo mje pasand karta hai, mere sath class me parta tha, wo mujhse baat karna chahta tha.. Pasand to mje b wo tha par me aese larkon se baat karna us waqt sahi nh samajhti thi mje ye maloom tha k Allah ko naraz kiya to wese hi kuch nh milna..agar uski maan li to uski rehmat se umeed hai k nawaz de ga...mene usey kaha k khuda ki qasam me apse 3 saal baad baat karungi...usne itna kaha tha k me intezar karonga... Me medical k frst year me thi tub mene ye souch k qasam khayi thi k 3 saal baad me apne maa baap se iske barey me baat karungi to achi b lagon gi...lekin usko yehi kaha tha k me 3 saal baad apse baat karungi.. 2 saal guzar gaye uska koi ata pata na tha, achanak mene usko aik jaga dekha usne darhi rakhi hui thi phr pata laga tableegh me lag gya tha...aas paas k logon se uski bari naik naami suni... Phr Allah ne mje hidayat di, haram halaal ka farq samajh aya..3 saal guzar gaye...wada pora karne