pious company

Oral sex

Q: Men shadi shuda hon shadi ko 4 sal ho gaey. Muje sex men maza ni aata tha phr lazat ki khatir men apni bv se oral sex start kia. Aur krty krty nobat ghtiya alfaz tk ponch gai. Phr net stories phr ghair mardon ki baten ab jb tk kisi bhi ghair mard se ki baten na kren to lazat ni milti. In short word ghairat naam ki cheez ni rhi. Bht preshan hn na es amal se jan churwa pa rha hon na sex k bad khud se samna kr paa rha hon. Kbhi kbhi din krta hai k sex ka sara set up he khtm krwa lon but us se bhi bht se masail janam len. Please meri help kren mery leaydua kren aur please muje btaen men kia kron aur kia hmara nikah jaiz hai.

Dream

Q: I have seen a dream that my friend and me smell the glue gas for nasha and then my friend stop and turn on Ac and then I saw myself in a swimming pool where I am swimming and go deep down and stay deep for long time like 2 hour it feel and I am also taking breath I feel I can stay in water and live .but it was too much long time in swimming in pool water . I said enough and then came out I was at my chacha home and there I saw them sleeping chacha but Chaci ek dum wake up and .my chacha told me to give ticket booking a person who came to work in their home and I went their to my cousin and said where were u I was waiting for u pool and got sleeep in swimmming deep u should come for me but u are sleeping and then I went to give ticket booking a worker and he saw and said this is Pia I have told ur chacha that I need other airline Saudi airline I have that pia too buy from other agency and I said ok I will make it tomorrow. Just wake up I saw dream 11 to 1 pm and hazrat I use to nasha and my business travel agency tooo. Can u tell me tabeer of it coz I don't get dream at that time . Is something that Allah wana tell me?

Dream

Q: Last night I had a dream in which I saw a big brown bear and a group of other predator animals. Something had happened and this bear was attacked by the predators and thus killed! I was watching this happen whilst swinging on a lemon tree with ripe yellow lemons! My school friends were around too! Then I found myself in class and after a while whilst sitting in a class the teacher drew the curtain and this beautiful pool with blue water. Please interpret this dream.

Doubts regarding the Qur'an

Q: I have often heard: "Perhaps you love a thing and it is bad for you and hate a thing and it is good for you..."

I am very confused about this. Say, if we used the example of a person that we love and ask Allah for but do not get to be with them because they are bad for us. If we end up with who is good for us will we still not love them as much as we loved the initial person? Will we have to convince ourselves to like them by telling ourselves that this is good for us for reasons we don't know? Being human, won't there be the initial disappointment of not getting who we wanted? They say in time you will come to see in what ways they were better for you but won't you be miserable up until that time by being with someone you didn't love as much?

I've also heard that you get from Allah what you expect from him but then at the same time they say that you should not set your heart on anything or you could be disappointed and that you should acknowledge a possibility of not getting it .

They say that dua can change taqdeer but only if what you make dua for is good for you, but what if your dua is that it should be good for you?

Trying to change one's life

Q: Reason why I'm emailing you is because I need urgent help. I have major hypocrisy in my heart with lots of maradh. I dont know what to do or where to even start! Please help me, this hypocrisy started 7/8 yrs ago when I fell in doubt with my religion and ever since then my life has been very miserable, I been through alot and it still hasn't changed me. Allah has given me lots of trials and I keep failing. I am also a hafiz of the Quran which makes this matter very serious. Up until now I got very scared as I've read the hadith from the prophet Muhammad (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) that most of the hypocrites of the ummah will be the Quran memorizers. This has scared me, do I have any hope of my hypocrisy to be forgiven if I repent sincerely. Again the key word is sincerely, I also have lots of arrogance and pride, I try to change it but its too difficult. I'll change for maybe like a few hours or even a day but then I go back to how I am. How do I change this for good? I am also very heedless, I think bad about Allah but I don't want to. I want to be back to normal like I how I was when I was younger. I have all the traits of the hypocrite, I lie everytime, sometimes I don't even realise I'm lying, I break promises, I have arguments, I have a big ego, I want all this to change. I also have riya but I dont know where to start. I try but its too difficult, can you please give me advice on where to start and can you also please give me advice, everytime I try to change I try to be a perfect Muslim but its too much to handle, I know we have to take it easy step by step but I overburden myself by trying to be the perfect person and everytime I do this I fail, within few hours I'm back to sqaure one!!! Im tired of this, I have gotten nowhere in life, life has been ups and downs, no self development, living life mostly depressed but i dont know what im living for, please please can you help me, I want to be submit my soul humbly to Allah but its too difficult, what can I do? I want to be a genuine person not a liar!!! This is very serious!!! Im an outward muslim but inside im not a believer, please help me.

Khwaab ki ta'beer

Q: Dream dheka hai zuhr ka bd ma na phela ma mufti tariq masood sa mulaqaat howi kisi jaga aur unho na muje khuch taleem dae ka apna dil theek karna chahye aur bi baat ki yaad nae phr ma na dehka ma apni room ma hoo aur wife bi hai phr mera pas mera shaykh mustafa kamal naqshabandi jin sa bait hoo un ki call ati mera mobile ma aur ma utata hoo aur salam karta hoo aur wo poochtaien hai muje sa ap na mulaqat ki hazrat sa mufti tariq masood aur kia baat ki app sa wo baatien muje ma na kha muje muraqba ki baat ki aur bi baat kar raha ta yaad nae phr un ki wife peechay sa boli aur mobile band hogaya aur phr call aye lakin mera mobile hang hogaya hazrat es ki tabeer bata dae asli muje esa laga ma spirtually asal ma mulaqat ki en sab sa

Khwaab ki ta'beer

Q: Shaam ka waqt tha jungle may hati (elephant) bhalu (bear ) mere piche kar raha tha. Sath may aur janwar tha. Mujhay yàad nahi...may tree k pehchay chup gayi. Khawab fajr ke baad dekhi thi.

Khwaab ki ta'beer

Q: Mere 4 bacche hai. 1 beti jo sbse bari hai aur 3 bete... mujhe aisa khwaab dikha ke mere shauhar mujhe phn kr ke police station aane kehte hai aur main ghabra kar police station jaati hu aur unhe bolti hu ke hum yaha unhi logo ki complaint krne aaye hai na jinhone humare baccho ko maarne ki dhamki dii...halanki ye dhamki dete hue mujhe kuch khwaab me nhi dikha bass itna dikha ke main aisa bol rhi hu...utne me mere dusre nmbr ka beta bhaagte hue aata hai aur uske chehre pr bht ghav hai zakhm hai chaaku se maare hue main ghabra kr usse puchti hu kya hua utne me humare ek relative batate hai ke wo log aaye the jinhone dhamki dii ise itna maar diye aur aapke bade bete ko jaan se maar diye uska intekaal ho gya ye bach gya...aapse guzarish hai please mujhe iski taabeer bata dijiye.

Khwaab ki ta'beer

Q: Mere ghar me meri ammi mere walid meri badi behen or mere bhai hen mene khwab dekha ki mere walid meri maa or behen k sath hm kahi dur ha rhe hen wo jagah shayad ajmer h to meri ammi or meri behen ek sath hen or me mere walid ek sath hm do log alg ho gye mtlb me apne walid k sath thi or meri behen meri ammi k sath me mere walid k sath ek unchi jagah pr gai hu train me beth kr bht unchi si jgh h waha mere walid ko jana zruri tha me unke sath gai hu to waha me ek jgh fas gai thi or mere walid waha pathar pees k surma lga rhe hen pr mujhe dekh nhi pa rhe me ek gadde me hu fr me waha se bhr nikli khud or me walid kp bol rhi hu ki aapne mujhe dekha nhi to wo mujhse bole bht rote hue ki beta tmne mujhe nhi dekha or bht ro rhe hen bht zada meri tbi aankh khul gai or mujhe unka rona dekha nhi ja rha tha mere mind me tbse yehi baat h me bht preshan hu aap btaiye kuch

Neak lowgo ki suhbat me bethna

Q: Main aik khwaab ki tabeer jana chahti hu. Mai ne khuwab mai bra sa sumandar dekha tha us k andr jati hn or phr sara pani khushk krty hain or uska nechy bht gand hota pta ne kia krna hota or phr wo pani chor dety or rasty mai e hoti hn abi pani k andr bht upr sy pani girta ha zor sy.mai kehten hn wo gand b saf kr dety hum phr pani chorty wo...pr wo chor dety. bara sa samandr jaisy wo gaon mai nehr hoti shyd jis mai pressure sy pani ata upr sy wo tha but nechy sy samandr tha...or jb pani khushk howa to nechy gand tha tha..ya dono aik sath kaisa hora.