Jis ki gheebat ki gayee ho us se maafi maangna
Q: Jis ki gheebat ki ho kia use mafi mangna zaruri hai ya us insan se mafi mange bagher gheebat ka gunah maaf hojata hai?
gheebat
Repenting from backbiting
Q: Does Allah forgive backbiting and arraignment with repentance?
Backbiting
Q: If someone is mentioning something bad about a person who he knows but is unknown to me, is it backbiting? Will we both be sinful?
Khwaab
Q: Mene khwab me dakha h mera bhai jo mujh se bara h Mere ammi ne kaha k is se ap ka nikkah huwa wa h bachpan se ye ap k sohar h mera boht dill ghabraya phr mujhy wo kamra me le k gaya or sb kuch kra mere sath . Phr mene apni shadi shuda bahan se pucha khuwab me he k mera is se bachpan me nikkah hua tha kya to us ne kaha nhi ammi ghalat kah rahe hain aise koi bat nhi h Ye khuwab mene subha so k uthna se phala dakha tha me jb se boht pareshan hun
Gheebat karne ke ba'd, maafi kaise mangna?
Q: Agar kisi ki gheebat ki aur us shaqs ko maloom nahi k uski gheebat ki ha tu kia use mafi mangna zaroori ha?
Gheebat sunana
Q: Gheebat sunany se gunah hota hai?
Relative speaking behind one's back
Q: My question is if a friend who is a relative also speaks wrong about me behind me and fights with me often on very petty issues and always tries to find a reason to show me down. Is it haraam to stop talking to such a person? I have cut the contacts with her because I can't take it every now and then. Please guide.
Refraining from Gheebat
Q: It was maghrib time and azaan was calling and I don't know who was calling the azaan but I had some thought going through my head about this person, someone was talking about him the other day and was saying he is (addar magaj) thats in gujrati. I don't no exact meaning in English but something about brain. He does what he wants to do. Whatever is in his head, he does what ever he wishes to do. Alhumdulillah, he is a very pious person. So azaan was calling and I dont know if he was doing azaan because he does sometimes azaan now in my mind comes his name and that he is (addar magaj ) and azaan was calling, is it kufr? I didnt say it with mouth. I wont call him so I dont really like to listen to things about people but I am worried if it is kufr. Is my nikah valid? Im not sure who was giving azaan. If it was him and that comes in my mind, is my nikah valid? I repeated the kalimah as well. I didnt say it with my mouth but now Im not sure if I said it with my mouth. Im mostly sure I didnt say it with mouth. Is my nikah valid? Is it kufr?
Attending a function where people are engaged in gheebat
Q: If a person attends a wedding and he hears people doing gheebat and is unable to stop them then is it permissible to sit in that place?
فلو على المائدة لا ينبغي أن يقعد بل يخرج معرضا لقوله تعالى : - { فلا تقعد بعد الذكرى مع القوم الظالمين }
در المختار ( قوله لا ينبغي أن يقعد ) أي يجب عليه قال في الاختيار لأن استماع اللهو حرام والإجابة سنة والامتناع عن الحرام أولى ا هـ وكذا إذا كان على المائدة قوم يغتابون لا يقعد فالغيبة أشد من اللهو واللعب تتارخانية رد المحتار
Warning someone about being deceived by a certain person
Q: I have given some money to a person who promised me to give me back on Wednesday but he didn't, then he promised to give me Friday and he broke his promise again. Likewise it is more than a week now and I still did not get my money back. I fear he might have tricked me to take money from me and he actually didn't need it urgently.
1. My question is that he also knows my brother and he may ask my brother for money as well and he do the same to him. Can I inform my brother about this so that he is aware of the situation and he does not get tricked?
2. If I complain to my brother about him then this will this be counted as back biting (gheebat) and I should not tell my brother?