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Talaaq ke baare me shubuhaat

7 years ago By admin

Q: Mera nikah ho chuka hai lekin abhi rukhsati nhi hui hai jb se talaq ka fatwa pade aur YouTube pr kuch video dekhe hai tb se mere mind me yhi baat baar aa rha hai ki agar hum bhi kbhi neeyat kiye meri wife ko talaq to talaq pad jaati hai yaa kbhi bhi talaq ki neeyat bhi krenge ki apni wife ko talaq denge to talaq pad jaati hai yhi baat mere mind me baar baar aati hai jb akele rehte hai tb khud se baate krte rehte hai yhi sab sochte rehte hai is liye hum apni wife se bhi bhut kam baat kr rhe hai to sir ye sab baat mere mind me baar baar aa rha hai to Kya  humara talaq ho gya hua to kaun sa aur kitna kyu ki hum kbhi apni wife ko talaq de kabhi soche bhi nhi naa hi neeyat kiye bas jb se fatwa sune aur kuch video dekhe tb se mere mind me ye baat baar baar aa rha hai ki agar kbhi neeyat bhi krenge ki apni wife ko talaq to humari bhi talaq ho jaayegi yaa talaq ki neeyat krenge apni wife ko talaq denge  to talaq ho jaati hai.

Doubts regarding talaaq

7 years ago By admin

Q: Mein bahut parishan hoon.Actually I stay alone at home and think about divorce all the time,what if my husband said this or that. Yesterday, I told him I have a few questions(4) to ask you. It was regarding one day where we fought and we were not speaking to each other. Then when he came back home i tried to make up and asked him something upon which he told me 'over' or 'tum sab khatam ker dee/it's over. I dont remember exactly but it was something like this.(there was no discussion of talaq/marriage. Yesterday I told him about the incident , he said ,I dont remember. Then i told him that you said 'over/something like that. I asked him if he had some wrong intention.(Aap ka koi ghalat matlab nahi tha na?) He said 'No'.He said 'mera aisa koi matlab nahi tha'. Then he told me you have asked for today.(I told him i will ask you four questions). Husband says 'tumhera aaj ka ho gaya hai'(question). I think he said twice(Dont remember exactly) Then I don t think I asked the same question again. I was quiet for 2-3 seconds listenting to him.(when he said ,tumhere aaj ka(sawal) ho gaya hai).After 2-3 seconds, Then all of a sudden he tells me 'haan hai'. 'There is'.I asked him what 'love'.I told him I am asking you something else. I asked him what you mean by 'haan hai'. He told me that topic was over and that he started another topic.I asked him if he said in continuation of the topic.He said 'No'. I asked him again, Did I ask you again the same question again, and you said 'yes'?. He says 'no'something else was going on in your mind and something else was going on in my mind. I took promise from him on Allah ( which I never do) and he promised 2-3 times that he meant 'haan hai' for something else. Now I am confused. GOD FORBID, What if he meant for that topic ? I am so confused. He tells me I didnot mean it for that topic.Did he mean ,' haan hai, intention of divorce'. I asked him today also he said, he meant love. I am scared what if I had repeated the question and he said 'haan hai' but if that would have been the case i would panicked. I didn t panic when he said 'haan hai'.I just asked what. Has something wrong happened? God forbid, talaq or something.It keeps coming in my mind why he said 'haan hai'. Does 'Haan hai' an incomplete statement? Sorry for troubling you,I dont have any one to share this problem. Please advise.Jazak Allah khair.

Shubhaat aur wasaawis

7 years ago By admin

Q: Mujhe jab ibadat Mai Karta Hu to din alag malum hota hai aur raat alag.kasrat se aamaal kiwajhse dil ko behad qarar aur sukoon mehsus hota hai jaisa Mai hero Hu.aur mujhe ye waqt aage b milna hai Jo mujhe samjh nahi araha k Mai kya karu.friends kehrahe hai k ibadat hi karni thi to padhai kyu Ki?aur Mai darta bhot Hu isk liy kya kiya jay?har cheez me end samjh leta Hu.aysi soch Maine qud banali hai junk mere pas always free time life me Mila hai. How to Change my mind?

Passing wind

7 years ago By admin

Q: I wanted to ask if one passed gas but feels as if some stool might have almost passed and touched the underwear what should one do? I have started to ignore these thoughts and now normally don't pay attention to these doubts. But today while I was in my mum's room I felt as if stool might have touched my underwear while passing gas. But I didn't do much and layer in her bed and passed gas some more. But then the thoughts started to make me uncomfortable so I got up and just as I was about to leave the room is passed gas again - this time bigger one. I went to check my underwear for wetness or stain. I ran my hands on error the underwear but found nothing the first couple of times but then I felt some wetness (not dripping consistency, it was very very light). Now I'm not sure if this was my waswasa making me believe that there is something or if it was actually there. I was wearing black underwear so it was difficult to be sure. But then I shed some light onto the part where I felt wetness and I saw that the area was a bit darker. But then again, because it was silk it normally leaves a mark when I sit for long, like a dent. No stool but it could have been moisture after gas. But what I don't understand is that why I didn't feel this wetness before? I changed my clothes. I was also wearing dark colored tights. They were also silk. Now my mum was furious because she thought I must have made her bed napak too. I'm. Not sure if the wetness transferred onto the bed as it was too little. I'm not even sure if the moisture (if it was real and not just my imagination) was released when I passed gas in bed or while I was standing. I think it must be while I was standing since it was a bigger and more open wind I had released. When I came down I wasn't sure what to do so I just came and layed in her bed again without cleaning the area or the blanket. I had taken shower but dried myself too so I don't think the najasat (if on bed, would have dried out as I took at least 30 mins to come down) had transferred onto my new clothes which were dry as well. But my mum made me clean the area and now I'm not sure if my new clothes are also napak or not? Am I napak? Was the bed napak? Are my clothes napak. I did clean her bed and the blanket where I think najasat could have transferred as I'm not sure which areas were affected. Do I ignore these thoughts in this circumstance and the similar ones in the future too?

Waswasas regarding ghusal

7 years ago By admin

Q: In ghusl of janabat water must reach under finger and toe nail? After every ghusl I get different kinds of doubt like water is not reaching in my mustache or anything. What can I can do? I suffer waswasas after every ghusl. I am facing a lot of doubt. In ghusal janaabat, if I forgot washing any part of the body what can I do?

Ghalat khiyaalat aur waswase

7 years ago By admin

Q: Meri umer 28 years hai and unmarried ho. Har waqt mere mind mai negative thinking and shaytani waswasee ati hai. Bahot ziyada disturb ho, nimaz hi nahi per sakta shytani waswasoo and sexy khiyalat se, asthfar ki wazifa kasret se kerta ho lakin ithna khas aser nahi hora ha. Please koi wazifa bata de ke ye sare problems solve ho jaye.

Waswasas

8 years ago By admin

Q: In ghusl, if I do not not wash my feet and feet's sole and it gets wet by water which I used for ghusl on other parts of the body and with my unwashed wet feet I roam in my house, is my floor or clothes impure and can I pray on my floor and with these clothes? Because I wore my pants when my feet unwashed but wet which transferred wetness to my pants probably impure water. And In fajr I am unable to find enough time to pray with purity because I have urine drops problem in fajr which may take 1 to 1 and half hours to get pure which I don't and cannot give can I be considered mazur for fajr time and can I pray in jamaat in this condition? Please suggest some zikr or Dua or salawat to get rid of waswasas (satanic whisperings) which have taken over my life now I miss two prayers on average daily because of it.

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