bay'at

Q: If I want to have bayat to islaah my nafs and my husband or any mahram is not into deen what should I do?

Q: Recently, someone has been inquiring about bay'at and its importance. If mufti sahib could please explain as this person is interested in bay'at?

Q: I took bayah a number of years ago to a sufi Sheikh in the Shadhili tariqa. I have recently been besieged with doubts about the tariqa. For example, I am not comfortable with the hadra which is a big part of the tariqa. I also frequently people saying bayah is haram (I know this is a minority option). Sometimes I think it is best to leave the tariqa to avoid doubtful matters. Then I worry that is is haram to break a bayah as the bayah might be considered a vow which cannot be broken. I then get very stressed because both options cause me doubt. I therefore have two questions; Is it permissible to break the bayah of a tariqa? Is it permissible to change tariqas?

Q: Is taking bayat to a Peer/wali is fardh(necessary). If yes then why?