birthdays

People congratulating one on one's birthday

Q: Before I had an idea about not celebrating birthdays, but on my first birthday in university, I gave a treat thinking that to feed someone is good, but I don't know if it's correct or wrong! Now, my second birthday is about to come and I don't know what to do if they greet me on my birthday, Alhamdulillah this year it's Sunday (I'll be on leave) but what reply must I give to the messages and phone calls from people who greet me (as I don't want to celebrate/give a treat in the name of a birthday), could you please tell me?

Kuffaar ke rusoom owr tareeqo se ijtinaab karna

Q: Mere khwab mein dekha ki mein mere cuzn bhai ke birthday ki dawat mein gayi table par cake rakha hai mere bhai aakar cake cut karte hai wo chocklate ka mitha cake mujhe khilate hai aur sab ko dete hai aur adha cake rehe jata hai,phir mein aur mere cuzns waha se chale ate hai waha mein dekhti hun ki hum log underground mein hai aur upar chadh rahe hai chadhte huve mein bolti hun mujhe cool cake ki pastry khana dil bolra phir mujhe apne ap se mitha aur thanda taste mehsus hota hai,meri cuzn sister upar chadti hai mujhe thodi pareshani hoti mere haath mein ek mobile phone hai mujhe upar chadna nahi ata hai mera phne mere cuzn ke haath mein deti hun aur meri cuzn mera haath pakad kar upar chadati hai. Mufti saab ap plz is khab ki tabeer batadijyea mein bohot pareshan reheti hun pata nai meri pareshani kab khatam hogi.

Birthday parties

Q: My family invited me for a birthday party. Few years before they cut down relation with me because of my in laws but now they invited me for this party respectfully. Is it permissible for me to attend this party for family relationship, otherwise I am not interested in these types of parties.