situations where talaaq does not take place

Biwi se kehna ke "aaj ke baad tm se baat nhi krenge"

Q: Hum gusse me apni wife se bolte hai ki aaj ke baad tm se baat nhi krenge aaj ke baad tmhare pass nhi aayenge naa tm ko apne pass aane denge naa tmhara chehra dekhenge lekin phir one week baat nhi krte hai phir jb gussa khatm ho jaata hai phir sab kuch normally ho jaata hai lekin kuch bhi ye sab bolte hai talaq ke neeyat se nhi bolte hai is se hmara nikah pr koi asar to nhi padta hai naa?

Marital problems

Q: I have a question regarding divorce. Me and my wife have had a lot of problems. And we end up living separated. But I said once that I give her divorce. But we lived together after that. Then we got problems. I didn't have problems with her. But her family had a lot of problems with me. And I shifted from my wife. I live in Norway. And my wife applied separation in Norwegian law. But I didn't give her divorce. But her parents got some kind of fatwa from somebody in Pakistan that it's a valid divorce. My question is, is it a valid divorce? How is that possible? She wants to comeback as she told me two months ago.

Does talaaq take place through the husband complaining?

Q: My husband complained to my mother that"your daughter is not giving me time" out of misunderstanding. He said I cant tolerate this situation and I am fed up with this situation. My mother told him to have patience then he replied that "I am sorry I can not tolerate this." He didnt use any word of divorce at all. It was just he was complaining. He swore to Allah his only intention was to talk to me. But I am confused that can these words constitute divorce?

Talaaq

Q: My husband was upset at me because my father parked in parking spot outside. He kept saying you should tell me when he parks and I kept saying I didn't know he parked. Eventually I said that let me go to my father right now and tell him please don't park in his parking, hearing that my husband got upset and said that if you tell him then I will give you talaaq. Hearing that, I didn't go in the room. Later on my father came to me and asked why my husbands upset, on that I said that you parked on his parking spot. Does this issue a talaaq?

Telling the wife that one is thinking of divorce

Q: I have a question about an event that took part almost two months ago but the question came in my mind this week. About two months ago, my wife and I got in a very heated argument and I got extremely mad. Due to my anger, I wanted to emotionally upset her so I told her that I am thinking of divorce (honestly speaking, the thought or idea of divorce did come up, but I didn't want to do it - I only mentioned it to her so I could emotionally upset her). So, she started crying. Then, I told her that if I write it on my arm, then it will take place. Then, I wrote "Thinking of divorce" on my right arm and since she was crying (and couldn't see), I told her, "Well, I wrote it..." (I did write the word divorce, but the complete phrase was 'Thinking of Divorce' and she couldn't see the full phrase. The only reason I did this was, again, to emotionally upset her). Then, after maybe two minutes, she read the phrase and said "What does this mean?" I told her that I only wrote "Thinking of divorce" so I could threaten her and upset her. Then, after about a few hours when we calmed down, we both apologised and we both moved on. However, the question came to my mind did this actually count as a divorce at all or not? I asked my wife and she thinks that maybe this counted as the first divorce that was revoked. I, on the other hand, due to my intention to not divorce her at all, do not think this was actually a divorce. Moreover, she was near her menses and we had relations before that, so I knew I would have to wait until after her menses to actually divorce her (but again, I never intended on doing that). So does this count as a divorce?