zina

Self study

Q: This is about a friend. She was in a relationship with a guy and she committed a sin (major). She then got married with one of her cousins who used to lived in Canada, so it was just nikah (no consummation) and she had to wait for her immigration for 2 years. She didn’t repent for what she did because she was living in ignorance of her deen. That guy came back to her life after sometime and she did the sin again. But Allah did mercy on her that she understood the bad intention of him and she broke all the ties with him. She is living with her husband since last 1 year. The issue started when she was reading Quran and she got to know about surah noor. She went to islamqa and there she found that if a person truly repents, then he can marry a chaste person. But if the marriage was before the repentance then the nikah is invalid and they should get a new marriage contract. She can not leave her husband house as it will cause a huge dispute in the family also she does not want to live a haraam life anymore. So she went to a mosque in Canada and ask the imam to take new marriage vows from them and also to become her wali, and Alhamdulillah they did it. But, now she read on islamqa that nikah is invalid if the wali is not present at the time of nikah. She has no relative in Canada who could become her wali. That's why she had no other option but to ask the imam. Has she done the right thing? Is her nikah with her husband valid now? Is there any hope for her?She does not want to get pregnant before getting sure that she is living a halal life now, she can’t even leave her husband's house. Please help her. She is very depressed and I am afraid that she will kill herself.

Sincerely repenting for one's past

Q: A muslim unmarried girl has affairs with multiple hindu boys for several years secretly and her family is not aware. Now her family is getting her married to a muslim boy. She says that she has realized now that she did wrong and would like to do Tawbah. Can she repent now? Will her repentance be accepted? And now how can she repent?

Child born out of wedlock

Q: I am a 34 year old married Indian living in South Africa. I came here in 2014 alone for work, I met a Christian lady in 2015 and had sex with her, I did not know her but it happened suddenly/by chance and it was only once no more after that day, it was protected with condom. After one year that lady claimed that she gave birth to a baby girl from me, I wasn't sure with it and then I did a DNA test, the result is positive and says the baby is mine. So in this case what must I do? I cant marry her as I am already married and have 2 sons and they are with me now, I can't even adopt that child. What is the punishment of this great sin? Please advise me.

Biwi ke zina karne ke ba'd saat rehna?

Q: Mera ek dost he, uska nikah 8 sal pehle hua tha, nikah k 5 sal bad uske badhi mannnato se ladhka peda hua, bchcha 1.5 sal ka ho gaya or uski maa, mere dost ki biwi ko ashiqi ka bhukhar chadha, wah uske walid ke ghar aksar milne jaya karta thi, or kuch din rukti bhi thi., uske walid ke ghar rehkr usne kisi ger mehram se talukat kayam kiye or hamila bhi ho gyi, bad iske jab uska shohar usse lene gya to unke samne us ger mehram ke sath bhag gyi, or 24 gante bad bhagte huye pakdhaye, pakdhane ke baad uske walid us ladhki ko uske gar le gye, mere dost ne talaq ki ichchha jahir ki par rishtedaro ne chalne nhi diya (us bhagne k mamle ko ranjish bata kr niptaya gaya) or use us waqt is haram kari ke bare me nhi bataya gya, mere dost ne uske bachchhe ki khatir us ladhki ko maaf kr diya, jab mere dost ki biwi uske ghar aayi to 15 din achchhe se rehne ke baad usne natak chalu kr diye, or uske shohar ko sari bate quran sharif par hath rakh kr sab bata diya, uske shohar ko sab pata chal gya, or wah us ladhki ke sath nhi rehna chahata, or ladhki bhi nhi rehna chahti, ab masla ye he ki us masoom ka kya hoga, uska baap use rakhna chahta he, or uski maa dena nhi chahti, baap ko pata he agr ladhki bachcha le gyi to us ladhke ki zindgi tabah ho jayegi... ab bataye kya aesi aurat ko nikah me rakhna sahi hoga wo bhi bachchhe ke liye, ya talaq de diya jaye? agr mera dost sabr karta he to use kya azar milega,? aur agr aesi biwi ka katal kar de to gunah hoga???