Impurities on clothing and furniture

Q: A few days ago I explained to my family that impurities transfer, but it seems that either they don't understand or they are not taking the matter seriously. I saw my mum touching my nephew's nappy. She didn't care whether her hands were soiled or not. She washes my clothes and irons them as well. Can I perform Salaah. I told my family that urine is impure and they all say yes that it's impure but I think that don't understand that impurities transfer. What should I do. Yesterday I wanted to perform Salaah then I left it because I thought I became impure. If they continue to became lax about impurities, what should I do?

Q: I have a paper which has the dua to read when you wake up in the morning stuck to my wall so I don't forget. As I was making my bed today i didn't remember or it just slipped my mind but as I was fixing my bed my backside or back might have touched the paper. It was an accident. I didn't mean to and now I don't know what to do. I didn't know if I could touch the paper to move it after because I am napak from my period and I don't know what to to do? Did I commit a very big sin? What do I do know ? I am a very doubtful person and I keep thinking that I will be severely punished and I am very scared and I don't know what to do.

Q: My question is that I had washed my clothes and they were left on the treadmill to dry. Shoes that are worn outside are used on the treadmill. I had forgotten the fact that shoes are put on it so I had left my clothes on it to dry. My question is that are those clothes napaak or can I consider them to be paak and wear them for salaah?

Q: If a place gets impure with urine and I touch that with a wet object and I  am certain that I would not see the urine traces on the wet object, in that case should I consider it impure?

Q: I suffer from extreme ocd. My brother is blessed with a baby boy. The family put his nappy in the toilet bin. Does the bin became impure?

Q: A year back in my absence some people living in the house used to consume alcohol. When I came back I washed the utensils and made them clean. However I cleaned the glasses with liquid soap and water using my hand and not a sponge as I did not want impurity to spread. I also washed the glasses later on when some kitchen work was going on. Though I don't use those glasses but I feel that whenever it touches other utensils it makes it impure. Only recently I saw a black dot stuck on it. It could be dust etc as we don't use those glasses now. I'm being paranoid that what if I hadn't washed it properly those two times and it's impurity stuck. A pure utensil had touched the glasses and now I'm being very paranoid. I'm tired of this ocd problem of mine and sometimes I feel that religion is over burdening and I can't handle it. Please help me. As I fear that Allah will just not accept my worship and instead of praying I keep myself involved in all this.

Q: I have always been very doubtful and may have OCD so now I am trying to overcome this illness but I can never know what to do. I have a cold so my mother told me to take some steam it was from a pot that was from the previous owners of the house. They said they were Muslims but many Muslims here eat non halal meat. I don't know if the previous owners 5 years ago ate un halal meat or not. but they left a dish which my mom uses when anyone needs to take steam because she doesn't want the sick germs to go into her cooking pots. She has washed the pot before but I don't know if she read the kalima while she cleaned it. If I took steam from this dish am I napaak? Is the towel I put over my head while taking steam napaak? I have touched so many things after that are they all napaak? If I used the towel after wudu to wipe my face before praying did my wudu break and did my namaaz count? On the dish there were some orange/ red marks and took some very hot water from the dish and a kitchen towel to wipe and see if there were permenent but they came off. Now I don't know what they were from and if it was halaal or not and if I made the kitchen towel napaak? My mum thinks I'm crazy so she won't believe me about washing the towels because I am always making her wash everything but I just don't know what to do? Is the kitchen towel napaak? If someone uses it to dry their hands will they become napaak too? I am too stressed out about these and it is really hard for my recovery from being a doubtful person what do I do?

Q: I would really appreciate your guidance on this. I am a very doubtful person and might even have OCD. Sometimes when I wake up for school in the morning I think I had a wet dream, I am not sure because i never remember having an orgasm in the dream. So in the mooring I want to make ghusal but there is no time so I decide to make it as soon as I get home. 1) If I wash my face and use my towel to dry it will my towel now be napaak? 2) During school if I need to watch a video for research and use my headphones will they become napaak? Because sometimes there will be a little earwax on them. 3) If I try on my mom's makeup like lipstick or eyeliner only when I am at home and then wash my face will the make up be napaak? If it is, how do I clean it?

Q: If I make a tile napaak as a piece of clothing with urine on it has touched it, if I do wudhu and my wet feet touches the tile, if my foot doesn't smell of urine nor does it turn yellow is my foot considered paak or napaak?

Q: Whilst I was urinating, I felt as though a drop may have touched my leg as I thought I felt it. The question I have is that I am unsure if there was urine on my trousers and I assumed they were clean and prayed my Salaah. Was my Salaah valid, and also, if a scenario like this occurred in future where I am unsure, should I assume that my clothes are clean or my clothes are dirty?