Q: I have been in a relationship for almost 7 years and we have been discussing marriage. Our only problem is that my family has yet to accept him or our relationship because of his education level. By all accounts, he is a good and religious man. He has help guide me to be a better muslimah and he is kind hearted, generous and loving. How do I get my family to look past his one flaw to see all his other strengths? He might not have a high education but he's hardworking and has accomplished so much in his career despite his education level. He is the one I want to get married to. I just don't know how to get my family to accept him and see him for the wonderful man he truly is.
A: All forms of premarital relationships are haraam. You both should immediately end the relationship and seek forgiveness from Allah Ta'ala for getting involved in this sin. Make a firm resolve that you will not repeat this sin in the future. A girl should not independently look for her suitor, instead she should allow her parents to decide in these matters.
And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.
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