Q: Whenever I’m in dilemma I always do istaqara and allhamdulila it is proved as fruitful for me. Now I did istaqara for my marriage. And I saw many dreams in single night. I asked Allah if I should ask ammi again for same proposal, and should I marry him because I don’t want any problems in both the families plus if it is better for us to marry? because once it is rejected by aunt when he visited my home because of his looks. As I metioned many dreams I saw one of it was-
1. I saw a dream of istaqara that that guy and my family are sitting and discussing. So I spoke to my ammi again and convenes her that when I selected that guy on the basis of his akhlak , Namazi and Deeni then why you are going on his looks.
2. I saw dream on same night that I’m standing where wooden drums are set one above the other. And on each drum, there is one question and I have to answer. The first answer I gave correct the second one I don’t know answer so all drums fell down and broken and I came out of that place and im finding myself on road where everyone is blind but all are pretending that they can see.
3. I saw again a dream on same night that two hens one is big other is small is under a tree one over the other standing. And I’m feeling both are safe under a tree.
4. I saw someone handover a baby in my hand and said u have to take care of him ALONE. And im thinking I will make this baby Namazi.
5. I saw I am connecting a wire containing the electricity I got shock but still I manage to tie up together. And then having Dates (Khajoor) and new dress is ready for me to go somewhere. Please advise me on it what should I understand from above... should I go ahead?
A: We suggest that you consult your parents and allow them to decide for you. Generally parents have more experience and understanding in the matters of nikaah compared to children and hence through them deciding there will be less chances of problems occurring later on.
And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.
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