Q: I am 28 years old. I got married in 2005 and I took khula after 5 years. I have a girl from my 1st husband. He had an affair with another girl before marriage but he married me because of pressure from his parents and used to send me to work and he was not working. Later I got married to another person after two years of my khula and I have a baby boy from him (7 months old). The problem is my second husband tortures me mentally. Gali galoj karte hain. He even beated me when I was pregnant. He doubts on me unhone jhut kahkar shadi ki humse unho ne jo bhi bataya wo sab galat tha wo chahte hai ke hum unke pair ki juti bankar rahe, gali ke siva bat nahi karte owr jhut to bahot bolte hai namaz nahi parte. Islam se koso dur hain. Allah maaf kare he forced me for haram sex (anal) whenever I was in my monthly period. Even during pregnancy also he wanted but I said baby ko risk hoga zabardasti mana karne par bhi wo nahi ruke. Even delivery ke bad dusre din hi he wanted to do. He tried to but as I was in mayeka he couldn't force me. Last 3 months se hum waldain ke yahan aaye hue hai. Pata nahi ke kya karna chahiye kuch samajh nahi araha 2 masoom bache hai. Unka kya hoga. Ye bat humne waldain se nahi kahi sabto chahte hai hum kaise b nibhale ye zindagi. Dunya jeene nahi degi. Second husband to kahte hai 3rd marad mubarak tujhe. His language is too rude. Please suggest what should I do? Muslim woman 3 nikah karsakti hai?
A: Jub tak aap ke showhar aap ku talaaq ne de, owr aap iddat ne guzaarde, kisi owr se aap nikaah nahi karsakti.
And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.
إذا تشاق الزوجان وخافا أن لا يقيما حدود الله فلا بأس بأن تفتدي نفسها منه بمال يخلعها به فإذا فعلا ذلك وقعت تطليقة بائنة ولزمها المال كذا في الهداية الفتاوى الهندية 1/488)
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