Oral sex and haraam fantasizing

Q: Kindly shed some light on the following:

1. Oral sex , with and without a condom? And a man giving his wife oral?
2. When my wife and I have sexual relations, after foreplay I insert my private part into her vagina and tell her a sexual story while she fondles her private part till she climaxes. Many a times the story revolves around us having sex on the beach while others watch and sometimes we include others in the relationship story. Is this acceptable?

A:

1. This is disgusting, nauseating and bestial behaviour.
2. This is very much inappropriate and shameful. To deliberately think of impermissible situations is also impermissible.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

إذا أدخل الرجل ذكره في فم امرأته قد قيل يكره (الفتاوى الهندية 5/372)

فتاوى محمودية 29/142

احسن الفتاوى 8/45

Answered by:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)