Masaail relating to intimacy

Using remote controlled sex toys when spouses live in different countries

Q: My wife and I live in different countries, and I have been advised that using sex toys is permissible if used by one's partner.

My question is: Can we use a remote-controlled sex toy, where I have control at times and she also has control at other times? Does this fall under acceptable use, or is it considered masturbation?

Questions related to intimacy

Q: I have a few personal questions regarding a halaal husband and wife that are in Nikaah.

1. When does ghusal actually become fardh, when the male private part touches - like rubs against the female private part between her legs WITHOUT going into the female private part, or when the male private actually enters the female private part?

2. How does one remove semen from a bed sheet or duvet cover?

3. How does one remove madhi (before semen) from a bed sheet or duvet cover?

4. Is kissing one's wife or husband's private parts haraam?

5. What age should a wife and husband stop allowing their child to see them without clothes, example baby is in the bath and one parent is in the shower?

6. Does a woman need a fardh ghusal if she has a wet dream?

7. If the husband puts his finger inside the wife's private part, does the woman need a ghusal if she does not orgasm?

8. If one touches his wifes private part and his hand becomes slightly moist and he touches the blanket, is the blanket napaak?

9. If madhi (before semen) touches a blanket does it become napaak?

10. If one does not realize that semen or madhi touched something like the bedsheet then after a few hours or even a day sees a dried stain what should he do?