speaking lies

Secretly giving one's wife extra money

Q: Sometimes I secretly replace my wife's money from her purse with a bigger amount. For example, if she had R50, I take the R50 for myself and replace it with a R100 without her knowing in order to surprise her. When she comes to know of a bigger amount, I lie to her and tell her it was miracle that took place from the side of Allah. It really pleases her when she hears stuff like this, miracles etc. 

My questions are:

1. Am I guilty of the sin of lying?

2. By me replacing her money with a larger amount, is this regarded as Ribaa?

Manipulating one's CV to get a job

Q: I am an engineer. I did manipulate my resume to get a job and I have experience in that job but I added no. of years experience in my resume because companies usually looks for no. of years experience. But I resigned from that company because I felt guilty and confused about haram or halal. On my previous company I did my work very well and I am a hard worker too. Is manipulating the resume is haram? If it is, then what about making money through that job and spending it for my family and my entire life? From last one year I don't have any job and i got no. of job offers with the previous resume and I rejected it. But this time I am so confused because in one place I saw it is fine if your giving 100 percentage to the company but there is no authentic sources. Now I got a offer letter and confused about it.

Lying to one's father

Q: When I was about 11 or 12, my father lost his job. I was very sad but then he got a job in another country. I was very happy to go to my country again after 4 years of war so I woke up one day and told my uncle that I dreamt that dad got the job but I didn't really dream it. I was very stupid so he went for the job and stayed living alone for 4 years and now I regret it. I didn't know how life goes and now I feel very bad but at the same time I feel very shy to go up to him and tell him that I lied to you 4 years ago, like he's my father so I don't know what to do.

Business me jhoot bholne se ziada paise milna

Q: Mera sawal ye hy k apnay business main apni country ghalat batanay se kia rozi haram hogi.. ya gunah hoga? kitna..? Is ghalat btanay se kisi ko nuqsan b nai hoga, na hi hm kisi ko dhoka detay hain... bs hmary pas log wo ayen gay jo ziada paisay detay hain...

In detail:

Main aik freelancer hon. Website designing or graphic designing krta hon. Online hamary mukhtalif mulkon k clients atay hain. Pakistan ki market buht down ho chuki hay... Uski do main wajoohat hain.

1. Logon ko kam nai ata pr lalach main kehtay hain k hmain ata hy or clients ki websites main cheezain khrab kr detay hain. Is wajah se bahr k logon ka Pakistanio pr trust nai hay...

2. Yahan k kch log jin k pas clients thoray atay hain wo ziada kaam buht km paison main kr daitay hain...

Ab mera aik dost hay, hm ikathay kam krty hain... or mujhay us se ziada kaam ata hay... main uska teacher hon is kaam main, jo kam wo nai kr skta wo usay main kr k deta hon... us ki profile UK ki bni hui hy. Wahan pr jo log atay hain, wo paisay ziada detay hain. Meri profile Pakistan ki hay. Meray pas wohi log atay jo paisay buht kam daina chahtay hon. Q k USA, UK k freelancers ziada paisay laitay hain, is lye wo Pakistanio se buht km paisay main kam karanay atay hain. Jo ziada paison wala client hota hy, wo Pakistanio pr aitbaar hi nai krta... Ab halan k mjhy apnay dost se ziada kaam ata hy, pr uski kamai meray say 4 guna ziada hay... Ab is soorat me main kia kron..? Q k meray mulk ghalat batanay se client ka koi nuqsan to nai hoga.. Ab ye rozi haram hy? ya sirf gunah hy... kitna gunah hay..?

Jhoot bholna

س: حضورصلی اللہ علیہ والہی وسلم نے فرمایا کہ میرا امتی ہر گناہ کرے گا لیکن جھوٹ نہیں بولے گا اور دھوکا نہیں کرے گا۔ اور اپ جانتے ہے کہ اجکل یہ عام ہے تو کیا یہ لوگ پھر محمد صلی اللہ علیہ والہی وسلم کا امتی ہے یا نہیں؟ 

Asking for faskh due to mistrust

Q: Me and my wife are currently separated but not divorced. We have been separated for 6 weeks now. My questions are as follows:

1. How long are we allowed to be separated before our marriage will be null and void?

2. My wife wants a fasagh, however I want to reconcile. The problem was that I borrowed money from a friend and never told my wife and she only found out afterwards that I borrowed money from a female... Is she allowed to be granted a fasagh on the basis of mistrust and lies?

3. If she insists on a fasagh and I dont want to because I still love her and for the sake of our children, can the Alim force her to give me a chance even though her parents don't want her to take me back?