س: میں ایک بیوہ عورت جس کے ۵ بچے ہیں اور عمر ۵۲ سال کے قریب ہے اس سے نکاح کرنا چاہتا ہوں ، لیکن کچھ وجوہات کی بنا پر ہم اپنے خاندان یا رشتہ داروں کو نہیں بتانا چاہتے ، کیا میں اپنے کچھ دوستوں کی موجودگی میں یہ نکاح کر سکتا ہوں؟ اس عورت کا ۲۵ سالہ اور ۲۰ سالہ بیٹے کیا وکیل اور گواہ بن سکتے ہیں.خاتون کا والد تو زندہ ہے لیکن اس سے ان کا کوئی تعلق نہیں یہ آزاد اور اپنے گھر میں رہتے ہیں. محترم مفتی صاحب مجھے اس مسلہ کا مفصل جواب عنایت فرما دیں
Q: A girl I know has done a nikaah with her boss. She did not have her guardian present and there was no written documents. They had a supposed molvi reading the nikaah and two witnesses. It was all verbal. Does the nikaah stand?
Q: I have been in a relationship with a boy for the past year and it resulted in us both committing a disgraceful act and has resulted in a child. We have repented and asked for taubah and want the baby to be legitimate in the eyes of Allah by performing nikaah. The problem is with my mother, she does not agree to this and says I am too young and also she is not religiously inclined when it comes to marriage in Islam. She says that I am 17 and cannot do this without her consent. I was wondering if there are any ways to make nikaah secretly until we can do it openly. My first priortity is my child and I want to do this properly and the boy and his family agree to this.
Q: Agar kisi larky r larki k gahr wale razi na hon r wo dono gahr walon say chup kar nikaah kr lain or nikaah k bad bhi gahr walon ko na batain k ham nay chup kar nikaah krliya h to kiya ye nikaah jaiz hogi?
Q: What is the rulling regarding a secret nikaah if both boy and girl are of a mature age and the parents refuse.
Q: My question is about talak. Meri cousin nay ghar walon sy chup k nikah kia in court. Or you can say k court marriage ki. In k nikkah ko 4 sal ho gay han or abi tak ye bat raz hi ha. Ab wo banda meri cousin ko tang krta ha and she doesn't want to be in contact with him and wants separation but wo banda nai man raha ha. Hum khula ka case nai kar saktay q k its a secret. Aik video mai aik mulana ny btya k tum mutalikka ho bolnay sy b talak ho jati ha. Us larki ny apny husband sy ye words lyrics ki surat mai bulway han i mean k usko bola ye song ha tum sing kro. Us larkay ny isko 3 bar asay sing kr k bola. Ab ap mj ye btahein k is trhan talak ho jati ha k nai?
Q: Me and my husband are married for 2 years and I'm still living in my moms house. My husbands family doesn't know we are married. He is really affraid to tell them. He tells me they might throw him out of the house and never talk to him. But I don't feel this way, I feel they might force him to leave me. But also my husband is not that good, he's relationship with my family is really bad. Sometimes I feel it's because we are far away. We can't see each other due to his family. Even if I go see him I have to stay in a hotel without him and he goes home. I feel he is not taking me seriously. My school is not done yet and he told me that once your schooling is completed we will move out. But I guess my school will finish really late. So I dont know why he's saying all that. I just want to live with him happily and have kids. But he never talks about starting a new life. Can you please give me any wazifa to have a better married life and so my husband could take me as soon as possible.
Q: I am an unmarried girl of age 32. I lost my father 9 years back. I dont have a brother. My mother is not getting any suitable alliance for me. I changed my mind and started searching for a divorcee and widowed person with child also. But then also I didnt get. Hence i started thinking for a married person also. Each and every day I am facing problema and coming close to gunah. No one is understanding me. Every time they are telling me to have patience.
I got a person who is married and has a 7-8 years old daughter also and he wants to marry again. He stays about 900 km away from me and says that he will only tell their family members after gettimg married to me. However he says that he will surely come with 8 to 10 people from his society to marry me. He says that he was searching for another girl for the last 3-4 years as he has some issues with his wife. For that he has said to his in-laws also that he has problems and they should ask their daughter about it. But nor his wife or his in laws are listening or giving any attention. My mother does not agree. All of the family members are saying that I will be cursed by his first wife and I will be hurting his first wife by marrying him. Pls suggest what to do.
Its an extreme condition for me.
1. Is it ok to marry that man?
2. What does the shariat say about 2nd marriage of a man, does he destroy his first marriage by 2nd marriage?
3. What does the shariat say for the anger and curses of the 1st wife?
4. If the man is not at all ready to divorce the first wife at any cost and intends to give equal rights then is it right to say that the 2nd wife is destroying the first wife's house?
Q: I am proposed to my long relation cousin. Both of our parents agreed to our marriage. Actually it is their arrangement. Also with their permission we are speaking via phone. But due to my education my parents don’t want me to do nikah right now. My question is, can I discuss only with my future wife (in shaa Allah) about mahram and give that mahram amount secretly and make this relationship to be halal? Or else am I allowed to keep one or two witnesses only and make this relationship halal? I don’t want the blame on my parents because i don’t feel like its their mistake.
Q: Is it mandatory to seek prior permission from the first wife for second marriage in Islam.