Q: My father is a Muslim from Bangladesh and my mother was a Hindu from India. Now she is a Muslim. They were in a relationship like boyfriend/girlfriend in 1992. That time my mother got pregnant by my father before marriage. Then I was born. My mother escaped with my father and left her own country, family and converted to Islam. Finally they got married in an Islamic way when I was 4 months old. My question is, am I an illegitimate son of my family?
Q: I am a doctor by profession and the only son of my parents. Currently I am working abroad. I am married and I have one son also. After my marriage ,once I saw one tablet called "VIAGRA" that is used for prolonged sexual desire in a book of my wife who is also my first cousin. I inquired from her and informed my parents and her parents and they just told me that "some of her class mates must have put this tablet in her book". I am a doctor myself but because of my parents I ignored it. She was going to college even after marriage. In those days I was working 350 km away from my hometown and was going there 2-3 days in a week and 3 days I was at home. One day I received a call from some unknown person. He said to me "your wife is coming to college in the college van but she is not going to college. Please brother take care". I went to her collage and inquired from the principal whether my wife was present in college in the last few days. He confirmed that "she was absent for the last 7 days". I informed my parents as well as her parents but they told me not to tell anyone otherwise it will be a stigma for our family etc. Anyhow I compromized again. After that incident, one night she ran away from my home and I caught her mobile phone with all the private chats with some fellow. The next morning she came to her parents home and demanded her mobile phone to contact her boyfriend. Even then, because of insistance of my mother, I lived with her. Allah gave me a beautiful son, Alhamdolilah. The same year I got a visa for Maldives and I am working here. I kept my wife in Maldives while she was pregnant as my mother was insisting to keep her along with me even though I was not interested because of all these things.
In short, my kid and my wife were living with me here in Maldives and I forgot all the previous things. But again I caught her with a Christian fellow who is a teacher and living near my quarters. I got all the proofs also that they were having sexual relationship with each other from their chat. He wrote "do u remember that night u were creating sounds and we did sex in different positions etc". After this incident, I sent her safely to Pakistan and did'nt talk to her nor kept any kind of relationship with her even though she was living in my home. When I went for vacation for 14 days, I was sleeping in another room. Again my parents are insisting that live with the girl but I dont want to.
One more thing "She never ever accepted her mistake even after getting caught by me".
Secondly, alhamdolilah I didn't commit any zina or kept any sort of relationship with any other female. From her chats I've come to know that because of her family she is living with me otherwise she doesn't want to live with me. What reply should I give my parents. If I say that I don't want to live with her, they will not feel good. What should I do?
Q: I need a fatwa if a marriage can be saved after finding out that a father in law had a relationship, fling with his daughter in law. No sexual intercourse happened. The father in law made maaf and they repented. The father in law is late...
Q:
1. If someone had unlawful relations more than one time with his married paternal aunts (father's sisters) and married maternal aunt (mother's sister), not the actual zina, but perhaps hurmat is established. What is the status of his aunts' marriages?
2. Also how to repent for these actions?
Q: Mai khwab me mere bhai ke dost ko dekhti hu vo muje pasand krta or vo meri hee caste ka tha mai bhi usse pasand krti thi....mgr rishta nhi ho paya kuki uska dil kisi or ldki pr aa gya or....usne muje bhot beizzat kiya...or khwab me vo dikhta hai jadatr vo bhot khush dikhta hai....or mai bhot dhukhi hoti rhti hu ki usne aisa ku kiya . ..mai jadatr khwab me uska sath pakr khush hoti hu mgr pta nhi ku mai sch me bhot pareshan rhti hu or....khwab me bhi bhot pareshan ho jati hu....vo jadatr mujpr reality me hasta hai kehta hai tu aisi hai vaisi hai...Meri burayi krta hai... Meri Bhabhi Se....Bs muje ye nhi Pta chlta ki vo khwab me bhi mujpr hsta hai Plz aap muje kuch aisa btaye ki vo muje khwab me bhi Na dikhe or iss khwab ka mtlb bhi btaye
Q: Main ayk larki se muhabbat kerta hn jabke woh mujh se muhabbat nai kerti ha. Or main bahot hi zayad preshan hn kyunke mera dil perhai main bilkul bhi nahi lagta hai or her waqat main usi ke khayalat main rehta hn kuch samajh nai a rahi hai. Namaz main bhi usi ke khayalat ate hain. Kya aap ke pass koi tadbeer hai to please bata dain. Mere dil ko sukun mile. Ya woh mera ban jae ya main us se door ho jaon. Pata nahi kya waja hai. Please help me.
Q: This question is from my mother. She is 57 years old and my father is 60 years old. She is regular in her daily 5 times prayers and is also memorizing the quran as well. She also teaches tajweed. She is feeling a difference in my father's attitude towards her and us children. She is doing a lot of istikhara and nafl prayers for my dad since he rarely takes interest in her and us. Although he is a good provider, he attends to all our financial needs but he hardly takes interest in spending time at home with us like before. Before he was very jolly and spent time with us talking. My mother saw this dream twice that she is sitting at the back of the car and he is sitting at the front. She also saw lots of lizards running around and kitten many of thrm. She thinks he is involved with another woman. She also dreamt my dad with another woman, his new wife and kids. She dreamt that there is a snake's head in the water pipe of the house. The snake is hidden in the pipe, my mom can only see the head. Please provide interpretations. My mom has gone into severe depression. Please help.
Q: I found out that my husband is having an affair with a 21 year old muslim girl. He has confessed that he does love her. So I read istikara to ask for guidance. My first dream was I was at my mums house and all of my bags were packed but I am busy helping my mum to make sweetmeats. My second dream was I was at the mall but I was having intercourse with my husband. I am very confused so I am not sure what this means.