Q: I would like to know if your parents give their blessings to a marriage but say their answer is no can I still go ahead and get married and if none of my family members want to stand as witnesses can the guys witness be my witness as well ? I am hanafi
Q:
1. Zaroori hai ke hum ya to Sunni hn ya Deobandi ya Ahle hadees? Me apne apko just aik true Muslim samajta hn I don't follow any one to kia kisi firqe ko hona zaroori hai Islam me ya as a Muslim samajna kafi Quran or Hadees pe amal karne wala?
2. On the day of hereafter kia is bare me sawal hoga ke kis firqe ko follow kia hai n kin Ulamao ko n konse Mufti se sharai masail pochte the?
3. Jo shaks jis firqe ka hoga "Sunni, Deobandi or Ahle Hadees" to uske Ulama karam n Mufti sahab jo follow karte honge us base pe uska hisab kitab hoga and agar Ulama galat tariqa follow karte the to kia uski saza us shaks ko bi milegi?
Q: Me apni job k lye apply karna chata hu. mera 1 friend hay usi nay mujhe kaha tha k 1 admi hay jo 100000 Pakistani rupees lay k bharti kar day ga. to mene is k leye istekhara kya tha k mera kaam ho ga ya ni agar hua b to kher aur barkat wala b hoga ya ni. is k lye mene istekhara kya 2 baar kya har baar 7 martaba continuously kya leken mujhe kuch samajh ni i. mene har tarah k khwab dekhay jis me kuch achay to kbi buray. aur har tarah k colour like white black red green b dekhay. Mere dil me abi b kashmakish hay k mere leye ye job sahi hogi ya ni. meri samaj me kuch b ni aa rha k me kis taraf jaon. Aap hazraat meri is baray me achhi rehnumai krain. me aap k shukar guzaar rahu ga.
Q: I want to ask that I would like to strengthen my Iman but when I go into Islam deeply, it's affecting my psychological mind and I am going like mad. What should I do?
Q: Is there any basis for these advices and will it be preferable to follow it:
Deeds or foods that weaken the memory
1. Sins.
2. Sour Apples.
3. Vinegar.
4. All those things that cause phlegm.
5. Moist Coriander.
6. Salted meat.
7. Hot bread.
8. Eating from a pot.
9. The leftover drink of a rat.
10. Reading tombstones.
11. Witnessing a crucifixion.
12. Looking at stagnant water.
13. Looking at one’s own private parts.
14. Looking at the private parts of a woman.
15. Masturbation.
16. For a person in need of a fard bath to look at the sky.
17. Looking into the mirror of a cupper (one who does cupping).
18. Using a broken comb.
19. Urinating in stagnant water.
20. Urinating on the side of the road.
21. Urinating under a fruit tree.
22. Urinating into ash.
23. Making wudhu in an impure place.
24. Wiping the hands or face with the tail of the clothing/kurta/qamis etc.
25. Entering the Masjid with the left foot or leaving with the right.
26. Dusting clothes in the Masjid.
27. Sweeping with a cloth.
28. Using a pants or turban as a pillow.
29. Excessive joking.
30. Laughing in the graveyard.
31. Excessive worries of the world.
32. Cupping on the nape.
33. Throwing of live lice.
References for the above Al-Mu’jamul Kabir of Tabarani, Kitabul ‘ilm of Ibn Abi Khaithamah, pg.31, Al-Jami’u li akhlaqir rawi, pgs.400 & 404, Ta’limul Muta’allim pg. 43, Al-Maqasidul Hasanah pg. 519, Tazhkiratu Sami’ Wal Mutakallim pg. 77, At-tibb of Imam Dhahabi, pgs.174-175 & Raddul Muhtar.
Q: If the parents don't allow their child to marry on his own will; should the child also deny their choice of spouse?
Q: You said that wazifa for kids good behaviour is to read Fatiha and blow on their food. Is blowing taken from hadeeth? I am afraid of such things because my mind fear everything that looks like not relying on Allah as I am afraid to commit shirk. You know hadeeth, I don't know them. Could you please share with me from which hadeeth it is taken and could you please let me know that whenever you give such advises its taken from the practice of our beloved Nabi (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam)? You said not to give sweets and processed food to kids, what is the problem with that? Could you please share? Also I have a question. Asking Allah after salah about a pious husband in your own language is the same as the dua from Quran or this particular dua was given to us as a help from Our Allah and He advises us to recite it? Why must it be read 7 times, is it taken from hadeeth?