Ghusal

Q: I have a problem with wet dreams and I am a female. I don't think I've ever actually experienced one because I am a virgin and don't exactly know what an orgasm is or feels like. I usually suffer from discharge on a daily basis, so when I think I have a dream I base it on whether I have excessive discharge. I've been dreaming of just words or small actions and not the actual thing, but once I did dream of the actual thing and woke up dry with no feeling of an orgasm (I googled it and found out you feel exhausted after but I don't. My heart only beats fast out of nervousness of the nature of my dream). I made ghusl just in case, but was ghusl waajib on me? And then recently I've dreamt of a boy and girl having physical contact (touching, kissing) but no actual sexual contact had taken place, but I had a throbbing sensation in my private area. I had these dreams during haidh so hard to tell if I discharged a lot or not. Will ghusal be compulsory on me. Please advise me on what I can do or read to prevent these dreams?

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1. I was sitting and some sexual dirty thoughts came and I didn't know if discharge had came or not but like after one hour when I went to the washroom and I washed, I noticed a bit more discharge then usual. Am I napaak now?

2. When I was washing I got this weird feeling in my private area and my heartbeat didn't go faster or anything but when I finished there was a little bit of discharge. Would that make me napaak?

Q: I want to ask you if I have a dream in which I feel love for a guy or my fiance so this is a wet dream and I will have to do ghusl for this if I feel little wetness? Maybe this wetness is due to sweating or istinja.

Q: If someone forgets to do wudu (as a part of ghusal) while doing ghusal, but immediately after ghusal he realized his mistakes and performed wudu, is his ghusal valid?

Q: I have a question that whenever I am in a state of impurity like after semen ejaculation, can I touch objects like phone books etc? Like they won't become impure because if they become impure just by touching whenever I am in a state of impurity then how can I take a bath? Whenever I want to masturbate, I try to avoid it by doing wudhu, etc, reciting kalima but still I end up doing that. What should I do?

Q: How much amount of wadi (fluid after urination) invalidates ghusal?

Q: If you've had a sexual dream about your husband and think you've orgasmed, do you need a ghusal?

Q: Whenever I start sleeping I have some sexual thoughts or dream in begining of sleep and I feel wetness. I don't know that these are just the thoughts or it is dreaming but I am sure that I don't remember any sensation or vaginal throbbing so this is wet dream or not? This happens to me almost everyday.

Q: If a lady inserts her own finger into the front private part, or any other object, without passion, does ghusal become waajib?

Q: I am in the state of janabat and wearing clean clothes. Sweat from my body (which is in the state of janabat) sticks to my clean clothes. Are those clothes clean enough to perform Salaah?