Ghusal

Touching objects in the state of janaabat

Q: I have a question that whenever I am in a state of impurity like after semen ejaculation, can I touch objects like phone books etc? Like they won't become impure because if they become impure just by touching whenever I am in a state of impurity then how can I take a bath? Whenever I want to masturbate, I try to avoid it by doing wudhu, etc, reciting kalima but still I end up doing that. What should I do?

Sexual thoughts

Q: Whenever I start sleeping I have some sexual thoughts or dream in begining of sleep and I feel wetness. I don't know that these are just the thoughts or it is dreaming but I am sure that I don't remember any sensation or vaginal throbbing so this is wet dream or not? This happens to me almost everyday.

Wet dream

Q: I want to ask you that most of the time I se non-mahrams in my dreams and feel wetness. Maybe this wetness is due to sweating or discharge. Also I don't see any erotic activity, arousing or any orgasm. This is like normal dream. Because I saw males in dream and feel wetness, so ghusl is fardh on me?