Ghusal

Q: If you could please give some guidance on the situation it would help a lot. I have heard that females only need to do ghusal when they have an orgasm or wet dream. I am a very doubtful person and 1) sometimes when I am sitting I will feel some tingling once or twice but I don't feel an orgasm, do I need to perform ghusal? 2) This happens allot and causes me lots of stress. When I go to sleep I will see a dream and feel tingling but don't feel or remember feeling an orgasm, do I have to make ghussl? I get vaginal discharge all the time so its very hard for me to check if there is extra wetness. Please give some advice.

Q: When you do ghusl, do you need to make sure you make the gargling noise when rinsing your mouth to make sure you rinsed your mouth correctly and properly? Because it feels embarrassing when you make the noise because other people can hear you outside the bathroom and they would know that I'm doing ghusl and I'm impure? Also, do you have to sniff water up your nose and touch/reach the beginning of the hard bone/part of the nose or is just putting water without sniffing ok because I find it hard and impossible to actually sniff the water into my nose? Also for ghusl, are you allowed to first take shower and rinse your mouth and nose while you're taking a shower? Does this count as ghusl and is it valid?

Q:

1) Its 4am and now I am in the state of impurity. I didn't do anything but for boys it happens naturally. So I just woke up from my deep sleep and fajr will be aftr 1 hour and 30 mins and I am confused what to do. Can I just perform ghusl by washing off the impurities and then washing my whole body with the niyyat of ghusl? Do I need to make wudhu too? It will take me 20 minutes to wash my entire body so can I just wash my body and then sleep and then when I wake up for fajr then make wudhu and pray? Is this allowed in islam?

2) Sometimes while doing ghusl a lot of negative doubts arise in my mind and then it takes me around 30 to 40 minutes to finish. Please help me out.

3) Does my wudhu break while chatting to a girl who is my friend and just friend no girl friend. And the chat is decent no bad things.

4) Will sweating break my wudhu?

Q: I suffer from severe OCD. I constantly think I am napaak and worry about my prayer not being accepted due to it. So I'm constantly changing my clothes and doing ghusal. I know that normal vaginal discharge only breaks wudhu and that you only have to do ghusl if you have intercourse, wet dream, or orgasm. But sometimes I get very confused. Sometimes I will randomly feel tingling and feel some discharge and will be confused as to whether or not I have to perform ghusal because I don't think it was an orgasm because I didn't feel weak after, or fulfilled, or pleasure or anything like that. It just happens and I get very scared because I think I will have to do ghusal again because this happens frequently and at random times I can't control. Please help me. I am constantly obsessing over this. In this case do I need to perform ghusl or just wudu?

Q: I made gusal to become free of janabah. I made my ghusal washed properly but once gusal was over I dressed, done a few other things and then realised that something was in my tooth but it seems it was there before I made ghusal. I used a tooth brush while in ghusal but found nothing. This dirt was found in a deep whole of my tooth. What is the procedure if something is stuck on the side of my toe nail. What should I do and is my ghusal made?

Q: I have a problem whereby without any desire sometimes even well after intercourse a few drops leak out after I made gusal. What do I do? Sometimes I am travelling and not in a position to change and make ghusal. It even happens just before salaah after I make wudoo.

Q:

1. While doing ghusl I was putting water in my mouth and then suddenly I sneezed and a drop of urine came out. In this case do I have to re start my ghusl or continue with the same one?

2. While making istinja after reliving myself, I just put water over my private part three times but I don't put water in the tip of my private part. Is it okay?

Q: Sometimes when I am lying in bed with my wife, I feel some drops come out without getting an erection. And after about 15 minutes the stain from these drops goes away. I am not sure what these drops are; water, pee, etc. Does this require me to do ghusl or just clean the area and do wudhu before praying?

Q: I know that it is compulsory for Muslims to take a shower after sexual intercourse (having sex) but what if there were no actual sex involved and your wife plays with you till you cum? She was still fully clothed. Its more like relieving himself but his wife does it for him, none of the discharge fluid touches him.